View Full Version : Can an ex-boyfriend who supported me try to get money back?
xdaprincess
Apr 20, 2009, 05:04 AM
Can an ex-boyfriend who supported me try to get money back?
tickle
Apr 20, 2009, 05:39 AM
You will have to explain further. If they were loans of money and you signed papers, then yes, but if this was money given in good faith I don't see how he can.
Tick
JudyKayTee
Apr 20, 2009, 05:57 AM
What were the terms under which he supported you? He would support you forever, until you found employment, you were to pay him back - ?
Need more info.
Keep in mind that verbal agreements ARE binding in the US - if you are in the US - and some of this will come down to your word against his.
xdaprincess
Apr 20, 2009, 08:36 AM
If a boyfriend gave me pin code for his ATM card, is it OK for me to take money?
NeedKarma
Apr 20, 2009, 08:39 AM
No.
jjwoodhull
Apr 20, 2009, 08:39 AM
Absolutely not!
artlady
Apr 20, 2009, 08:41 AM
Take is the operative word here and so NO!
Justwantfair
Apr 20, 2009, 08:46 AM
Without his consent that makes you a thief.
ATM pin doesn't equal consent.
You need to talk to your boyfriend if you would like to borrow money from him.
JudyKayTee
Apr 20, 2009, 09:03 AM
This should be combined with the other thread - all of the information isn't posted in either place. My answer on other thread is incorrect. I thought OP was asking about rent/utilities. Apparently she was not.
And the answer to this is that any withdrawals which are not approved by the boyfriend turn into he said/she said (and he's an ex boyfriend on the other thread) and criminal activity.
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/small-claims/can-ex-boyfriend-who-supported-me-try-get-money-back-343705.html