He says : we should just do it to get it over with. This is after he kissed me.. he kind of loves his girlfriend, and he don't know what to do.. are guys like complete jerks or just idiots?

No... just the one you are fooling around with.

... not a jerk. Just an idiot.

No....just the one you are fooling around with.

It was a kiss and we were drunk.. how is that fooling around?

Fool around doesn't only mean sex. Don't you consider kissing fooling around or making out?

Don't blame the acohol for your actions and his. If you can't control your actions while your drunk then guess what? You shouldn't drink!

Now you what to know if he is a jerk but he isn't the only one at fault here. He just has more to lose than you.

How do someone tell you "let do it and get it ove with?" Sounds like you know him, and probably, like him before this encounter. So more than likely you knew he had girlfriend but didn' care.

Yes he is a jerk and idiot but your just an enabler to his ways. So what does that make you?

You're going to reap these consiquences one way or another. You kissed a guy who had a girlfriend. Even if he gets with you, you know he could cheat. He already has. Just because he changed to another girl doesn't mean he will change his character

He obviously cheated on his girlfriend. Do you want to be the girl that he cheated with? How do you think his girlfriend would feel if she found out that you guys kissed while you were drunk?