I found out when i was 23 that the man who i called "Dad" Isnt my father. I am now 28 & very curious to find out who my father is! There is so much i would like to know but i dont know where to start and my mother wont help me! Pretty much says i am on my own. I have a name that it. But his name is pretty common and so is his last name.. I dont know what to do! I can't afford to hire someone ... HELP ME!:confused:

Talk to every family members, friends of the family. But basically if your mom will not help you out, it is very hard.