Okay so I like this boy and the first time we went out I asked him out I don’t no y well anyway, so our relationship was horrible u could tell something was bothering him and he’s wasn’t that close at all. Then like all most a month in to it he dumps me on txt during school, when I see him the next period. It was so awkward to talk or see him.ugh. So then I deleted him number because, I can get obsessive sometimes, then 4 months go by and u no it’s still weird but were still friends then I ask him for his number again on a Friday because, I wanted to txt as friends again . And I txt him and on sat I was like we should chill and he’s like I can’t I’m going to my dad’s house. So he takes the train there and the whole way he’s talking to me and he’s like I miss u and a bunch of stuff. I want to get back with u. so I believed him and it’s like 12 or 1 o clock in the morning and he’s like lets go back out and I was like OK babe let’s do it. And you know we like promised a couple stuff then on Monday he came over and we chilled at my house went on 2 walks and he for the first time really acted like he liked me and wanted to be around be, it was a good time , but then he had work so we dropped him off at his house to get a couple things and then we drove him to his work and we had to go in there to get some grocery’s , and everything I saw him he smiled or head bobbed and it looked like he was happy or the first time in ever, so we go in like and then I go to say a last goodbye and I was like bye I’m leaving now and he’s like bye and I’m like txt or call me. And she’s like for sure, so I left and he didn’t call or txt me then in the morning he didn’t txt or anything so I was like good morning and nothing, so on Wednesday me and my friend go to starved rock until Friday and he still didn’t txt or call. We have been going out since the 12th of April and that’s a week, so for 5 days he hasn’t texted or called or anything. I don’t know what to do. Why is he doing this to me. I don’t understand. Help me.:mad:

Are you sure there hasn't been a family disaster or emergency.. did you call him... if no problems with family and such he is just a player girl move on

Call him, and get the facts, before you jump to conclusions.

I read your whole post.

It's true he may have had an emergency- and you do need the facts before you jump into any conclusions.

What stuck out for me was the fact that you even said that in the start of the relationship it was horrible. Why was it horrible?

It's seems like the both of you are not a good match. There is definitely poor communications skills in this whole relationship.

It seems like both of you like each other, but then don't. Being in a on again off again relationship isn't healthy nor does it create any good habits for future relationships.

You also said you can be obsessive? How so? Texting/calling too much, overall clingy? If this is the case you need to realize that relationships don't define you, they're just a part of your life. To apply this to your life you have to do other things that don't involve your boyfriend. Go outside instead of watching t.v. go volunteer, be a big sister to a little girl [www.bbbsc.ca], just get yourself new hobbies and new [positive] experiences.

Sarah

do not ask hem out the first day!

Huh? Could you explain what this has to do with the question?

What is your age group?