View Full Version : I had an abortion I had sex I'm having my period can I still be pregnant
Princesa05
Apr 16, 2009, 03:38 PM
Like 1 month and a half I had an abortion after the month I had unprotected sex I'm having my period can I still be pregnant? Please answer I need an answee thank you
Alty
Apr 16, 2009, 03:41 PM
You've already been pregnant and had an abortion and you're still having unprotected sex?
You do realize that abortion isn't a form of birth control, right?
As for whether you're pregnant, doubtful, seeing as you're having your period, but anything is possible.
The fact is, if you have sex, especially unprotected sex, pregnancy is a huge possibility.
See your doctor, get on the pill and use condoms. This will reduce the chance of pregnancy. Reduce, not eliminate!
J_9
Apr 16, 2009, 03:41 PM
Why in the world would you have an abortion and then have unprotected sex if you aren't ready to be a parent?
If you are having your period most likely you are not pregnant. You will now have to wait and see what happens next month.
Abortion is NOT birth control. At least use a condom.
Mini Kitchen
Apr 16, 2009, 03:41 PM
Contact your medical provider ASAP.
Alty
Apr 16, 2009, 03:42 PM
contact your medical provider ASAP.
Why?
J_9
Apr 16, 2009, 03:43 PM
contact your medical provider ASAP.
I wonder why too?
Princesa05
Apr 16, 2009, 03:56 PM
But I been feeling lyk I'm pregnant and after da abortion I bleed for 2 weeks and know rite know sometimes it stops so do you tinl I'm pregnant?
Alty
Apr 16, 2009, 04:00 PM
But i been feelin lyk im pregnant and after da abortion i bleed for 2 weeks and know rite know sometimes it stops so do u tinl im pregnant??
We can't tell you for sure, but it is highly unlikely that you are if you are having your period.
Like J9 said, wait until next month, then, if you miss your period, take an hpt with first morning urnie.
Also, please don't use text speak, use full words and the best english you are capable of. Some of us are over 20 and have a hard time understanding text talk. Thank you.
XM8
Apr 16, 2009, 04:06 PM
Hello princeso05,
First of all, could you please use proper english words, plus organised sentences and paragraphes when typing? Moreover, please refrain from using "chat lingo - It prevents me and other members on the forum from fully understand what you're talking about.
Now coming back to your problem - I would doubt that you're pregnant, because you are still having your period, indicating that your embryos may have not been seeded yet.
Remember this is just a possibility, not a guarantee.
As Altenweg and J_9 mentioned above, I'd like to emphasize on the fact that abortion is not a substitute for preventing pregnancy, it is a solution for a really crappy situation. Remember that.
Not only are you going to have to kill yet another fetus, but you are really risking the chance of catching a sexually transmitted disease (STD).
Please use condoms and get on the pill before you go around having sex like that, it's completely irresponsable and dangerous.
-Xm8
Princesa05
Apr 16, 2009, 04:06 PM
Thank you is it normal that you pee a lot? And that your stomach hurts but not where is suppose to hurt? This mornin I took midol that usually helps me a lot wit my cramps but this time it didn't help me for nothing
J_9
Apr 16, 2009, 04:09 PM
Menstruation symptoms and pregnancy symptoms can sometimes mimic each other. Again, you are just going to have to wait until next month to find out if you are pregnant or not.
In the meantime, please make an appointment with a doctor so that you can get on birth control.
Princesa05
Apr 16, 2009, 04:15 PM
U still think that next month I can be? Is that me and my boyfriend startef having sex witout condom like 1 week ago so that's why I have my doubts please help me
Curlyben
Apr 16, 2009, 04:16 PM
>Questions Merged<
Please stick to ONE thread for this issue
J_9
Apr 16, 2009, 04:19 PM
U still think that next month i can be?? Is that me and my boyfriend startef having sex witout condom like 1 week ago so thats why i have my doubts please help me
There is nothing we can do to help you. You have to stop having unprotected sex. You have to wait until next month to see if you get your period.
You put yourself in this position, you have to wait it out. We are not psychics, and although I am licensed to give pregnancy tests, etc. There is nothing I can do for you over the internet.
Also, as Curlyben mentioned, please do not start a new thread just scroll down below this answer to respond.
Princesa05
Apr 16, 2009, 04:26 PM
Ok thank you for your help and I guess I have to wait for next month
Princesa05
Apr 16, 2009, 04:42 PM
Where are you guys located?
Alty
Apr 16, 2009, 04:43 PM
Where are you guys located??
Located?
It's the internet, worldwide web. No location.
J_9
Apr 16, 2009, 04:54 PM
Where are you guys located??
Planet Earth, more specifically US of A
Alty
Apr 16, 2009, 05:19 PM
Planet Earth, more specifically US of A
Personally, I'm on Mars! ;)
Ana52408
Apr 16, 2009, 05:23 PM
You know that happened to my mom's best friend in her early teens and when she went to the doctor is because they didn't clear out the baby right and that's why she was still bleeding.
Princesa05
Apr 16, 2009, 06:07 PM
I just took a shower and I started bleeding is that notmal?
Alty
Apr 16, 2009, 06:08 PM
I just took a shower and i started bleeding is that notmal?
Yes.
You said that you're having your period, so blood is normal.
Princesa05
Apr 16, 2009, 06:12 PM
But it started coming out if I was peeing! And den my nipples started to itch
Princesa05
Apr 16, 2009, 06:18 PM
But is she still pregnant?
jandtspencer
Apr 16, 2009, 06:19 PM
Please, please, please stop having unprotected sex lady! Why would you do that right after having an abortion? Didn't you feel bad in the slightest about what you did to an innocent baby or do you not care and further more not care if you do it to another innocent baby? If you are that worried schedule yourself an appointment with a gynocologist and get checked out and whilke you're there get some info on safe sex or ABSTINENCE!
Princesa05
Apr 16, 2009, 06:22 PM
Why are you talking to me so mean? I haven't done nothing to you
Princesa05
Apr 16, 2009, 06:23 PM
If I'm pregnant I'm going to keep my baby and I regret it bad and know I want one bad that's why I want you guys to help me
Princesa05
Apr 16, 2009, 06:35 PM
Can you giys help me I regret bad what I did and right now I really want to know if I COULD POSSIBLY BE PREGNANT
artlady
Apr 16, 2009, 06:46 PM
If you are bleeding to the point where it is flowing from you like urine ,you need to visit an emergency room. It is not normal to bleed like that from a regular menstrual cycle.
Did you have an abortion from a medical doctor at a clinic?
Princesa05
Apr 16, 2009, 06:49 PM
Yes I did but I'm scared I don't know if I'm pregnant or da something its wrong with me what do you think it is?
artlady
Apr 16, 2009, 06:51 PM
Can you giys help me i regret bad what i did and right now i really want to know if I COULD POSSIBLY BE PREGNANT
If you had an abortion,you are not pregnant.
You are far too inexperienced to be thinking about having a baby if you are going on the internet asking people to diagnose you as if we were visiting nurses.
Grow up and get some experience in life and then worry about making babies.I can see from your post that you are young and not very well educated yet!
People get a little upset when they see young girls such as yourself making silly mistakes that can be prevented with education and intelligence.
We are not trying to be mean.
shannameiling
Apr 16, 2009, 06:53 PM
Yes, some women can be pregnant and still have a bleed. We don't know why it happens or where the blood comes from but it is possible to have a bleed. Try taking a home pregnancy test or go to a doctor.
artlady
Apr 16, 2009, 06:54 PM
I suggest you speak to a parent ,you may possibly need to visit an ER if you are bleeding like urine coming out of you.
Princesa05
Apr 16, 2009, 06:57 PM
Ok thank you its normal
What I'm feeling I don't feel normal
Princesa05
Apr 16, 2009, 06:58 PM
I mean I don't feel normal
Fr_Chuck
Apr 16, 2009, 06:59 PM
First sorry, you may not like some of the answers you get, but if you had a abortion then started having unprotected sex within 30 days, then there has to be a problem with YOU for some reason you feel abortion is a form of birth control or do not understand proper protection to take not to get pregnant.
The suggestion that you learn, grow up is actually a sound example of good advice to someone who appears to be doing things poorly
JoeCanada76
Apr 16, 2009, 07:00 PM
Then see a doctor..
Princesa05
Apr 16, 2009, 07:11 PM
Because I regret what I did and now I want to have a baby
Alty
Apr 16, 2009, 07:17 PM
Can you giys help me i regret bad what i did and right now i really want to know if I COULD POSSIBLY BE PREGNANT
Good God girl! We can't tell you!
Do you want us to guess? Okay then, there's a chance that you're pregnant, and there's a chance that you're not. There, does that help?
We've given you advice, told you what to do, we don't have anything else to offer you.
Regret all you want, it's too late now. As for keeping the next baby that comes along, I suggest you learn how to spell first, then learn about menstruation and what causes pregnancy, because it's painfully obvious that you have no clue.
This question was answered on page one. No matter how many people come here to tell you the same thing, it doesn't change the fact that we have no idea whether you're pregnant and you telling us any new symptoms you're having won't change that fact!
Wait until next month, if you miss your period then take an hpt using first morning urine. Write this down, it's the last time I'm saying it.
Yes, I'm mad. There are other people here who need our help, you've already gotten the help you need, so move on.
Good luck.
J_9
Apr 16, 2009, 07:18 PM
Because i regret what i did and now i want to have a baby
How old are you?
You cannot replace an aborted baby with another baby. That's immature thinking. I am guessing you are in your teens.
Do you have a clue as to all of the ramifications of pregnancy and motherhood? Do you know how much it costs to raise a child? How do you plan on paying for all of this?
Alty
Apr 16, 2009, 07:24 PM
You are a my loser
I'm not your anything. See? Spelling.
Really, I know you're scared, or hopeful, I'm not sure which anymore, but the fact remains, you had an abortion, that's over. You can either move on, learn from this mistake and do better in the future, or you can compound that mistake and make an even bigger one by continuing to have unprotected sex and another possible pregnancy.
You aren't ready to be a mom, wait until you're older and wiser.
Really, good luck.
Princesa05
Apr 16, 2009, 07:26 PM
Im 19 and I have a job and my husband too
Fr_Chuck
Apr 16, 2009, 07:28 PM
Another baby is not the answer, in fact too soon without proper counseling to get over the pain and hurt of the abotion another baby may only be a reminder for life of the pain.
Get over and don't use a child for any form of treatment for a problem of any type
J_9
Apr 16, 2009, 07:29 PM
Im 19 and i have a job and my husband too
Yeah, right. Do you have a clue how many times we hear this?
My guess, after all my years on this site is that you are around 16.
Princesa05
Apr 16, 2009, 07:31 PM
You guys don't know nothing bye and I will never come to this website anymore and not even recommend people to come here
Alty
Apr 16, 2009, 07:31 PM
U still think that next month I can be? Is that me and my boyfriend startef having sex witout condom like 1 week ago so that's why I have my doubts please help me
Im 19 and I have a job and my husband too
Which one was the baby's father, the husband or the boyfriend?
And so the lies begin.
Princesa05
Apr 16, 2009, 07:34 PM
Hes my boyfriend but I say his my husband because we being going out for a long time
Fr_Chuck
Apr 16, 2009, 07:35 PM
My money is on 15 and lied about her age at a abortion center, parents have no idea and boyfriend thinks condoms is not real sex
J_9
Apr 16, 2009, 07:35 PM
Hes my boyfriend but i say his my husband because we being going out for a long time
Your boyfriend cannot be your husband unless you are married. This again shows your level of maturity.
16 right?
nikosmom
Apr 16, 2009, 07:46 PM
No n***a you dont know me
Wow, such maturity.
And you really think you're ready to be a mother?
You need to go straight to the free clinic and get some birth control and condoms.
Do not pass Go, Do not collect $200.
Dinkle Dorf.
Alty
Apr 16, 2009, 07:48 PM
I'm going to guess 15 1/2, right smack in the middle of Chucks and J9's guess. This way I have a better chance at winning! ;)
JoeCanada76
Apr 16, 2009, 08:00 PM
You guys dont know nothing bye and i will never come to this website anymore and not even recommend people to come here
I do not think anybody really cares whether you recommend this site or not... Its called a wake up call. Now your even caught in a lie which further spells out what everyone has said here. Please wake up and use protection. If your having health problems. Go to your hospital or doctor. Asap. It is very simple. You do not even know that you need a lot of healing time after an abortion. Or miscarriage or anything. Until you mature, please get on birth control, not the birth control your used to. Abortion. Goodnight.
Ana52408
Apr 16, 2009, 08:30 PM
Yes i did but im scared i dont know if im pregnant or da something its wrong with me what do you think it is?
I meant to disagree. OH OH and guess what? Your not effin pregnant want to know why? Cause god isn't going to put a child in your hands now that you aborted a little angel he sent to you. Too badddd for you honey bunny, go get a fake doll in toys are us and play with that one, go have all the sex you want, you have a huge problem but I know that my jesus the one that died for all of us will not freaking give you a baby. Too bad soooo sadd your not pregnant and if you tell me you are, BULLSHIII honeyy we know your all lying :)
ANB428
Apr 17, 2009, 06:20 AM
Yes, there is a possibility that you could be pregnant by having unprotected sex. You are extremely fertile and will be at least for six months after an abortion. You need to go get on birth control and use condoms. You do not want to have a child right now and that is clear because you have just had an abortion. Do not go and get pregnant on purpose because you feel guilty about aborting your child. Don't let any one judge you either about having an abortion, you were thinking about your future. I don't agree with abortions but that was your decision to make, not anyone else's. At least you didn't bring a child into this world that you didn't want and couldn't provide for.
Now, as for how old you are, you do seem pretty young, so please think about your future. You don't want to have to raise a child at a young age, even if you are 19, it is still hard as hell. That is how old I was when I had my daughter and it is really hard to go to school and work to support us and better our lives. You need to think long and hard about what you are doing. You can go to Planned Parenthood and get on birth control without your parents consent (if you needed it), which you should go and do. You need to STOP having unprotected sex, you don't only have to worry about pregnancy, you have to worry about STD's too.
As for you being pregnant, everyone else has already covered that and you need to listen to their advice. When older people give you advice you should listen to it because they have been there and done that and don't want to see something bad happen to someone else. That is pretty much the purpose of this site, the people here only try to help and they tell it how it is whether you like it or not because they have had life experiences and have learned from them. They are stating facts and trying to make you think. You need to start making better decisions, because the decisions that you make don't only effect you. Espically when a child is involved. Go get on birth control and stop having sex until you get on it and have been on it for a few weeks. You need to let it get into your system. You can go 1 month without having sex. Good luck with everything.
nena14
Apr 30, 2009, 06:50 PM
Like 1 month and a half i had an abortion after the month i had unprotected sex im having my period can i still be pregnant?? Please answer i need an answee thank you
Umm girl I'm 16 and I had sex and my its not my baby's fault! That me and my boyfriend like to ! So next time you get pregnant don't kill the baby is not your baby's fault!
GoOD lUCk! And yeah I'm sure you need to go see a doctor