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guitarpicker
Sep 14, 2006, 01:58 PM
Hello everyone.. I'm new here and I need help without going to some place.
there is this girl.. I met back October of last year. We got together, and started getting really serious within 2 months. She is the type of girl who likes to play games, but not in a bad way. Just games to test what my reaction would be. And so on. We break up around April of this year. She then would randomly call me for no reason. I never called her. My mistakes were.. picking up the phone. Its now September.. almost a year later.. she calls me and tells me her and her new mate split and went their own directions. This was the first time she called in around 2 months. So I tell her I cant, I'm going to go see someone and that ill be back at 3am that morning. She then tells me to pick her up then. I told her no. and now about 2 weeks later after, I can't stop thinking about her. I am starting to feel these feelings I felt back then when I first met her. And her phone is disconnected.. and the only way of talking to her.. is showing up face to face with her. Should I just show up at her house and talk to her.. or just stay away?

talaniman
Sep 14, 2006, 03:04 PM
I would personally stay away. You broke up for a reason and now she wants you back. No way jose. I don't know what you mean by playing games in a good way but I would definitely keep the past in the past. Those old feelings will fade as they did once before.

JoeCanada76
Sep 14, 2006, 04:13 PM
Personally I would stay away. Playing games is never a good thing.

Skell
Sep 14, 2006, 05:12 PM
It sounds as though you are her back up plan. It didn't work with the other guys so now she wants you again.
Don't be anyone's back up plan.
Your BETTER than that.
Leave it be and don't contact her and those thoughts will subside!

s_cianci
Sep 14, 2006, 05:15 PM
I'd stay away. Let her show up at your house. If she goes so far as to do that then that might be a sign that she's interested and you can maybe go from there. Otherwise it won't be worth your time and effort.

Krs
Sep 15, 2006, 03:44 AM
She is playing games with you big-time, throwing you from 1 side of the court to the other. The ball is in her court... ( not good ).

Be strong and don't fall her trap.

mysticque
Sep 15, 2006, 05:49 AM
Well totally the field is yours too. I'm not trying to make a really bad impression here but if you are not looking for something serious either I think the girl is in the same position as you do. I think you know what I mean. But if the case is you are really looking for someone special then she's not the girl.