My boyfriend was giving me a long oral sex and while he was doing it my right vagina lip (flap?) was very swollen because he was sucking too hard/too much on it. When will the swelling go down? It doesn't hurt when I pee and it's not itchy... we were both virgins when we met (he took my virginity & I took his) so we do not have any diseases... any help please when will this go down/away? Any girls had this happen to them after oral sex?

1. Just because you two are virgins does not mean you two are STD-free. Sure, it's less common than ex-virgins, but it doesn't mean you're free and clear.

2. If the labia is swollen simply due to too much "suction," then the swelling should go down within a day or two.

If the swelling hasn't gone down within a few days, I suggest you go see a doctor.

I have had one of my lips swell before too; however it was after sex. Mine also didn't hurt, and went away in a few days. If it doesn't go see a doctor. Most likely it is just irritated.

I've had both labia swell after sex. Sometimes it's sore, sometimes it's not. It always goes away within the next 24 hours.