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Apr 6, 2009, 12:23 AM
Hi everyone!
I've been out on the dating scene for a little while now that I've been released back into the big big ocean. So far all of the guys that I have had contact with recently have an elementary type of humor.
For example, I was outside of a house with one of the guys and I got startled when his dog brushed up against my leg. I didn't know he had a dog! Therefore, I gave a little gasp and jumped a little bit. After the guy kept repeatedly telling me that I was afraid of dogs... even though I refuted it and told him a few stories about dogs in my life.
Then, this other guy told me that I'm an insect killer and that if he had a pet he'd keep it far away from me. (I have been working on a science project that involves using preserved flies). I explained to him why we have to use flies and the end goal of the project, but he usually makes some sort of remark about killing insects whenever we talk.
I'm wondering why I keep meeting these sort of people. Is there something in my personality that is attracting these types of guys? Am I hanging around the wrong crowd? Is there something wrong with me?
I can understand that if I really liked the second guy, I should tell him how much his sense of humor bothers me and see if we have the potential to work out. However, I feel that with either of these guys we wouldn't be able to work out because the only kind of conversation we might have is all joking around rather than about semi-serious topics or just what's going on in our lives.
I've been out on the dating scene for a little while now that I've been released back into the big big ocean. So far all of the guys that I have had contact with recently have an elementary type of humor.
For example, I was outside of a house with one of the guys and I got startled when his dog brushed up against my leg. I didn't know he had a dog! Therefore, I gave a little gasp and jumped a little bit. After the guy kept repeatedly telling me that I was afraid of dogs... even though I refuted it and told him a few stories about dogs in my life.
Then, this other guy told me that I'm an insect killer and that if he had a pet he'd keep it far away from me. (I have been working on a science project that involves using preserved flies). I explained to him why we have to use flies and the end goal of the project, but he usually makes some sort of remark about killing insects whenever we talk.
I'm wondering why I keep meeting these sort of people. Is there something in my personality that is attracting these types of guys? Am I hanging around the wrong crowd? Is there something wrong with me?
I can understand that if I really liked the second guy, I should tell him how much his sense of humor bothers me and see if we have the potential to work out. However, I feel that with either of these guys we wouldn't be able to work out because the only kind of conversation we might have is all joking around rather than about semi-serious topics or just what's going on in our lives.