View Full Version : Shold I kiss my boyfriend?
miss flower
Apr 5, 2009, 01:57 AM
Hello,
I have aboy friend and we loved each other deeply we meet accidentally and we liked each other from first sight,by the way he is not from my country he studies here in my home,I don't know but he wants to kiss me but I hesitate with it but in the same time I want do it, because I really love him,we think of marrige after graduate but am afraid that ma familly will refused ,what I shuold do?? Pleas help me:(
R-J-S-InLove
Apr 5, 2009, 02:16 AM
Can I please know how old are you??
HelpinHere
Apr 5, 2009, 08:21 AM
First off, if the only thing holding you back is your fear of what your family will think, start talking to them.
Depending on how far your family knows you, and how old you are, you may start with a "I think I am old enough to date" or "What would you recommend in a guy?"
If your family knows you are dating, say something like "I'm seeing this guy, he's really sweet, I think you should meet him"
Just showing up with your boyfriend is never a good idea, bring it up before they ever meet him, and try to make him sound good (maybe even better than he is) so they will have a positive outlook before they ever meet him. If he's the one, there should be nothing to stop your relationship.
If you are holding yourself back, as in you don't believe you are ready, then don't. NEVER LET ANYONE PRESSURE YOU INTO DOING SOMETHING YOU AREN'T READY FOR. If he really is such a good guy, he will wait for you.
I too would also like to know how old you are, as it could help determine a less generalized response. :p
girlontheshop
Apr 7, 2009, 10:49 AM
If you are serious about this guy give him hints and show interested, marriage is much further on than kissing so give it a try