Hello,


I have been seeing this guy for about a 1month he is 25 I'm 22yrs... on our second date we started making out... we were kissing for about 2hours. He is such an amaziing kisser, we could go for hours... anyways when intercourse time comes... he puts a condom on but looses all his erection, so what I do is that I try to stimulate him by giving oral sex and stroking his penis... He gets his erection back but gets soft again when he puts on the condom... I try to stimulate him again but it doesn't work... He got kind of embarrass saying that is the first time he ever happened to him and ask me to give him another try some other time. He tells me it has nothing to do with me cause he says that he is fully aroused by me but his sexual member is not responding for some reason...

On the 4th date we make out again same scenario he gets soft with the condom I stimulate him again and he gets hard again we have intercourse in several position ( when we switch position he never comes out of me) then when the time comes for him to do me doggystyle he comes soft again...

I don't understand... I told him maybe he is thinking too much about what happened last time and that is boring his mind...

How can we fix this problem

hello,
is the first time he ever happened to him How can we fix this problem

Sax time is the best solution to this problem
(viagra might work, but wouldn't recomand it;)). The more sax you have he will get used to it, and the more you will enjoy it.

No driver is comfortable at their first few hours in the road, the more you derive the better driver you are.

Cassandrita, your man's problem seems to be exactly mine. I am 40 yrs old man and with very good sex drive. In my twenties, I used to have sex 4/5 times a night. Even now, we don't miss any day and if kids are not around, we start there. But, if I used condom, it happens me same as you. No sensation at all. It's like taking shower with raincoat. So, if the guy you are with is trustworthy, healthy and in love, look other b-control measures and have a good sex life. If you have any question, drop a private message to me at abodh1 at Yahoo