adam_89
Apr 3, 2009, 12:25 PM
So, my problem is how to arrange my easter dinner.
I was talking to my fiancé awhile back and I said I wanted to have an Easter dinner for our families. We didn't really want to mix the families so we decided to have 2 different ones. I asked when she wanted to have her parents out and she said on Easter which was fine. So, I get ahold of my family and get it all planned out and we were going to have it this Sunday. Just the other day her father had a stroke and will have surgery the Friday of Easter weekend. So, we can't have her dinner then so now she wants to switch or mix them. It kind of creates a problem for me having to switch them around like that, but I also for some reason don't want to mix them just in fear that nobody would get along and I would just have them on both sides of the house anyway. I hate getting stuck in the middle and trying to give both sides attention. It was that way on Superbowl Sunday and people got mad at me for not talking to them more than another person. Too much drama and I hate drama. I want to have hers on a week night but I don't think she wants to. I just want to have hers on a different day and I don't know how to tell her this without making her mad. Any suggestions?
I was talking to my fiancé awhile back and I said I wanted to have an Easter dinner for our families. We didn't really want to mix the families so we decided to have 2 different ones. I asked when she wanted to have her parents out and she said on Easter which was fine. So, I get ahold of my family and get it all planned out and we were going to have it this Sunday. Just the other day her father had a stroke and will have surgery the Friday of Easter weekend. So, we can't have her dinner then so now she wants to switch or mix them. It kind of creates a problem for me having to switch them around like that, but I also for some reason don't want to mix them just in fear that nobody would get along and I would just have them on both sides of the house anyway. I hate getting stuck in the middle and trying to give both sides attention. It was that way on Superbowl Sunday and people got mad at me for not talking to them more than another person. Too much drama and I hate drama. I want to have hers on a week night but I don't think she wants to. I just want to have hers on a different day and I don't know how to tell her this without making her mad. Any suggestions?