Hey,

I'm 15, my boyfriend is 16. We could swear up and down that we are in love with each other and we have only had sex just once. He treats me right in every way and I do the same. He wants to get married and have kids when we are older. So do I. bt how do I know its not just teen love? I'm worried that it won't last as long as we hope, and that it will cut off earlier than expected. I care so much abou him.. please let me hear your thoughts on this.:confused:

Thankks!

ashley99<3

Maybe you'll stay together and maybe you won't. You each have a lot of life to live -- high school, maybe college or a trade school, travel, family conflicts, family joys, living independently and learning how to survive in this world, enjoying hobbies and friends. What you must do is throw yourself fully into those things and grow as a person who is comfortable in his/her own skin. Please don't do what I did -- marry too young. (I was 21 and a college grad, but never got a chance to live independently and figure out who I am.)

Like Wondergirl said. You're still young and you have a lot of life and living ahead of you. You might get married and spend the rest of your lives together, or you might not... I think only time can tell on that one.

And like WG there are many wonderful, beautiful, and exiting things out there to enjoy and experience, and each thing will help you grow as a person.

Also, you shouldn't wast time worrying about this now, you should just live in the moment, save the later for later ;)

Take it slow and let the future happen. Be weary of pregnancy and take procautions if you are sexually active. A baby won't keep you together [I'm not sure if you thought about this or not but I'm just putting this out there].

Like I said, take it slow. Enjoy your time together and make the best of today.

MRS.S