EXCUSE THE TYPO: "MALE"strip clubs NOT "MAKE" strip clubs
Here's just a general question for the women... Are women really turned on by muscular, sweaty greasy men in thongs with hard ons or a banana in their pants?? Or is this just entertainment to pas the time? I went to a bachelorete party this weekend and the male dancers there grossed me out. I did't want them anywhere near me... Is that weird?

Here's a general question for the men: Don't lie... what's the most you've spent at a strip club on a dancer and why??

Me? A buck every time she came up to dance (they rotate through the list of dancers every 3 thongs around here). I'm a cheapskate. And nurse my overpriced beer for 45 minutes.

Wife wanted me to take her to see guys dance nude. Never did because the only ones I knew existed here were closed to build the new stadium. So no comments on what she thought.

My lover absolutely loves fit men.

It is a primal drive for her.

But the male stripper thing just doesn't work for her, no matter how fit he might be.

But she also doesn't like the idea of a man going to a strip club, so maybe its just an extension of that... maybe she might be interested, but feels obligated to object because she doesn't like the man looking at other women.

Don't know.

She's told me when she sees a fit man with a great a$$ she never thinks "id love to grab that a$$ while he is inside me"...

I hate to say it, but when I see a woman with a great body I do wonder how it would feel against mine.

Oddly enough... I've never cheated on any woman... while every woman I've ever loved has cheated on me.

f*&king life for you.

I don't mind going to a strip club but I just don't like the muscular guys. They look to fake and I don't like them near me either.

Then another turn off was all the screaming that came from the females and the big fuse. I don't know if al male strip clubs are the same but I must say I saw the strippers do a lot of freaky things to the females.

Now once a while me and my fiancé goes to a strip club and the mood is more melow than the male strip club. We don't go to the strip club often but have visited the same one around 4 times since we been together for over 2 years.

However a strip club visit isn't needed since I put on a show for him with my portable pole out of eBay. They really do have everything on there.

I will honestly say... I've been to a few strip clubs... and many more to come (most of my closest buddies are getting married in the next year or two)...

But honestly, I've never bought a dance for myself. I've had dances bought for me, but... in my mind, it's a logical argument that I will probably have a better chance of sleeping with the bartender or the waitress than I do with the stripper, so why bother? I've bought dances for my buddies or the "soon to not-be-a-bachelor," but never for myself.

In the Washington DC clubs... dancer - customer contact is prohibited by law, and vigorously enforced by club bouncers. Why you might ask. Because they make so much money on drinks and the Dancers cuts that only a fool would risk a cash cow to get a few bucks allowing anything illicit to happen on their property. And yes a club can and will lose its license to operate if they are caught allowing with drugs or prohibited contact. And when they lose the license they can't get it back.

These beefed up guys just don't do it for me,never have ,even when I was in my hay day. I like real sexy men and that comes from confidence and something that is more than just pecs and abs.

When I was younger and lived in Fla. us girls would laugh at these guys strutting down the beach ,all greased up and acting like they had a stick up their behind :)

I don't mind going to a strip club but I just don't like the muscular guys. They look to fake and I don't like them near me either.

Then another turn off was all the screaming that came from the females and the big fuse. I don't know if al male strip clubs are the same but I must say I saw the strippers do alot of freaky things to the females.

Now once a while me and my fiance goes to a strip club and the mood is more melow than the male strip club. We don't go to the strip club often but have visited the same one around 4 times since we been together for over 2 years.

However a strip club visit isn't needed since I put on a show for him with my portable pole out of ebay. They really do have everything on there.

Can't rep you liz but *portable pole* sounds kinda' funny on this thread ;)

I'm with the other gals here; the greasy beefy dudes just don't get my motor going. I tend to like quiet, introverted guys (maybe even with a hint of geekdom) with a quiet confidence. So the hardbody dancing for dollars doesn't do it for me. In other words, I like the regular ole joes of the world.

I've been to female strip clubs and can say I was honestly more turned on by the women dancers because the vibe is different. I've gotten many dances (of course paid for by someone else) and had lots of fun.

Just something about the whole beefy "Chippendale" look that's in fact, a turn-off!

Here's a general question for the men: Don't lie... whats the most you've spent at a strip club on a dancer and why???Hello chrissymarie:

I don't go often, but when I go, I go to have fun. I spent a couple hundred a month or so ago at Ricks. Had TWO girls showing me their stuff and rubbing it all over my body. I kind of liked it. That's why I spent the money.

excon

All I can say is that I have been to a male strip club and ewww. It doesn't turn you on at all. The guys are all oily and stubbly on their bodies from shaving. They are obsessed with themselves in the mirrors and honestly look kind of gay! Now.. I have been to a girls strip club myself and even though I am straight... I loved it. The girls were pretty and very nice. They didn't make me feel uncomfortable at all. It was kind of fun and my husband loved it but you can't do that stuff all the time.. that's a once in awhile thing!

These guys,, are simply not my type.. I've had enough of them in the past and they re nothing more than fake plastic confidence. Why should I be impressd by a body so... ''hot'' as my best friend would say when I find it fake? I wouldn't like a man of this kind to dance upon below or nxt to me either.

EXCUSE THE TYPO: "MALE"strip clubs NOT "MAKE" strip clubs
Here's just a general question for the women... Are women really turned on by muscular, sweaty greasy men in thongs with hard ons or a banana in their pants??? Or is this just entertainment to pas the time? I went to a bachelorete party this weekend and the male dancers there grossed me out. I did't want them anywhere near me... Is that weird?

Here's a general question for the men: Don't lie... whats the most you've spent at a strip club on a dancer and why???



I thought you were a dancer? Or do I have you confused with someone else?

If so, I would think you would have knowledge on how much men spend - and why - ?

These beefed up guys just don't do it for me,never have ,even when I was in my hay day. I like real sexy men and that comes from confidence and something that is more than just pecs and abs.

When I was younger and lived in Fla.,us girls would laugh at these guys strutting down the beach ,all greased up and acting like they had a stick up their behind :)

I totally agree. These type of guys be walking around like their all cute because of their body but they wasn't to be me. However, I would see some girls go wild after them. I would be like please.

I would take a, skinny or husky guy(with a football build) everyday over a muscular guy.

I would take a, skinny or husky guy(with a football build) everyday over a muscular guy.

[looks for his shoulder pads and eye black]

If we are talking personal preference - I like a husky guy. Not into slender guys. Like muscular guys, just not excessively so.

Probably like 20 bucks. I have only been to the strip clubs a few times. Never got a lap dance because I don't want some nasty stripper rubbing up on me.

I thought you were a dancer? Or do I have you confused with someone else?

If so, I would think you would have knowledge on how much men spend - and why - ?

I am a dancer but I just wanted some opinions or thoughts from people other then people in the entertainment industry.

But the most a customer (actually a husband and wife) have ever spent on me is about $700. I guess they liked me ;)

[looks for his shoulder pads and eye black]

I will and if he doesn't have it on, I will put some shoulders pads and black make-up to go under his eyes.

I am a dancer but I just wanted some opinions or thoughts from people other then people in the entertainment industry.

But the most a customer (actually a husband and wife) have ever spent on me is about $700. I guess they liked me ;)



Wow! I am giving up my career and moving to Texas. Do you give lessons? :)

(How have you been? I haven't seen you around the Board in a while.)

Wow! I am giving up my career and moving to Texas. Do you give lessons? :)

(How have you been? I haven't seen you around the Board in a while.)

I've been OK... writing a lot of posts and starting a lot of threads like usual. You should check them out sometime. How have you been?

I've been ok... writing alot of posts and starting alot of threads like usual. You should check them out sometime. How have you been?


Okay - we've been travelling in different circles, I guess. I'll take a look - always enjoy your questions.

If we are talking personal preference - I like a husky guy. Not into slender guys. Like muscular guys, just not excessively so.

You are like my lover.

She HATES boxing... just cannot stand the brutality, but she would absolutely love to watch evander hollyfield skip rope without a shirt on.

Thankfully I have my grandfathers broad shoulders and chest... so she seems to like me well enough from the neck down. ;)

Now my cousins wife... she likes skinny guys... guys I could snap in half with three fingers.

To each their own I guess.

[looks for his shoulder pads and eye black]



Step a little closer and I'll blacken both of your eyes for you - :)

EXCUSE THE TYPO: "MALE"strip clubs NOT "MAKE" strip clubs
Here's just a general question for the women... Are women really turned on by muscular, sweaty greasy men in thongs with hard ons or a banana in their pants??? Or is this just entertainment to pas the time? I went to a bachelorete party this weekend and the male dancers there grossed me out. I did't want them anywhere near me... Is that weird?

Here's a general question for the men: Don't lie... whats the most you've spent at a strip club on a dancer and why???


Why do you think that they might be bananas?

Why do you think that they might be bananas?



Because they were yellow?

The male strippers don't really turn me on, never have. When I was younger my friends and I would go because it was a fun girls night out. I have to say, most times we didn't even notice the strippers, we were having too much fun.

My hubby went to strip clubs when he was younger, he doesn't any more. He'd rather have a real woman then a fantasy, or so he says. ;)

Why do you think that they might be bananas?

I know of 2 male dancers... they say they stuff with things like sick, banana's, plain cloth, etc.

I once dated a stripper when was a little younger. He wasn't all that musclar but he was very cute with nice eyes.

I saw a few of his shows and thought he was packing down there until the relationship turned physcial. I was very disappointed, did I say very.

Probably like 20 bucks. I have only been to the strip clubs a few times. Never got a lap dance because I don't want some nasty stripper rubbing up on me.

I disagree. I'm a stripper and I'm not nasty.

Chrissy I should have been more specific. I don't want some nasty PHILLY stripper rubbing on me. Those girls have 6 teeth and bullet wound scars. I didn't mean any disrespect.

Chrissy I should have been more specific. I don't want some nasty PHILLY stripper rubbing on me. Those girls have 6 teeth and bullet wound scars. I didn't mean any disrespect.

Its OK! Thanks for the clarification ;)

My ex took me to watch women dance several times, it's entertainment. Or at least it was for me. There was one girl I liked a lot. Then my husband pointed out that she looked like a guy, narrow hips, muscular... The male strip club I went to a couple of times was so much fun. But then, I'm nearsighted enough, even with visual correction that sweat and stubble weren't an issue.

There should be laws about men walking around with their shirts off. I mean, that if it's illegal for women, it should be illegal for everyone, right? So many of my male co-workers changed shirts right in front of me. It's the surprise factor I think. Suddenly, there's flesh, Jeez! I would ask them how they would feel if I changed my shirt, braless, in front of them. "Well, that's different."

Excuse me dude, I'll just go and wring out my panties now.

I feel sorry for male dancers because they look very... uh... fee feeish. They are totally self-absorbed, and moving their bodies in unnatural ways, thinking that somehow, they are sexy and women will appreciate their 'manly' dances.

Imagine taking one of those guys home. He has a body perfect, and cute little thongs that should never be worn by the male species, and he starts to strut his stuff. And, you're laying there in bed thinking, "hey baby, cut the cartoon already, let's get it on!", and he does his little dance, and without music, it's worse than what it was at the bar (especially after you've sobered up a bit), and he appears really, really silly.

Little leaps, and moves to show himself off, winks, and boogah boogah baby, aren't I great, and you want me because I'm perfect! And when he gets himself all worked up and drops his drawers, he has a little pencil sticking out because he's taken steroids for so long it's dried up his manhood.

So, when you stop laughing, you call him a taxi.

Of all the hockey players, bad boys, and working men I've ever known, not a single one could I picture with thongs on dancing like a girl.

My ex took me to watch women dance several times, it's entertainment. Or at least it was for me. There was one girl I liked a lot. Then my husband pointed out that she looked like a guy, narrow hips, muscular...The male strip club I went to a couple of times was so much fun. But then, I'm nearsighted enough, even with visual correction that sweat and stubble weren't an issue.

There should be laws about men walking around with their shirts off. I mean, that if it's illegal for women, it should be illegal for everyone, right? So many of my male co-workers changed shirts right in front of me. It's the surprise factor I think. Suddenly, there's flesh, Jeez! I would ask them how they would feel if I changed my shirt, braless, in front of them. "Well, that's different."

Excuse me dude, I'll just go and wring out my panties now.

Here here... I agree, I'd like to see far more women changing their shirts in front of me braless.


Now there will be a few that should have kept them covered but I'm sure far more will make it worth it. :D

I don't often go to strip clubs but if I do ill go to femaale strip clubs because I isn't gay. Any way I have a six pack nice abs blond hair blue eyes and girls can't keep there hands off me

[QUOTE=Flame any way i have a six pack nice abs blond hair blue eyes and girls can't keep there hands off me[/QUOTE]

So post a picture so we can see.

i dont often go to strip clubs but if i do ill go to femaale strip clubs coz i aint gay. any way i have a six pack nice abs blond hair blue eyes and girls can't keep there hands off me

Don't forget your ego, you've got that too. :D

Don't forget your ego, you've got that too. :D

Alty, you were so in my head!

Use a wide lens camera so your entire ego fits into the photo.

I've read some of your other answers - are the women who can't keep their hands off you reaching for your throat?

Oh, read the background - "Flame" has a very active fantasy life and apparently no dictionary. Also is dating hot cheerleaders so we're talking high school. I will guess 15.

And he's enough of an adult not to be homophobic, you will see.

I am a dancer but I just wanted some opinions or thoughts from people other then people in the entertainment industry.

But the most a customer (actually a husband and wife) have ever spent on me is about $700. I guess they liked me ;)
In my younger days, I partied between Dallas and Ft worth a lot with family and friends, but 20 bucks was pretty much my limit, forget the lap dances, the beer was high enough. Cheap I know, but hey the show was great, and the beer was cold, what more can you ask for.

I though the guys sitting by the stage, shelling out the bucks, were goofy to begin with, or drunk.

Don't know what the wife would do at a male strip club, but I have never known her to stuff money in MY draws, but you never know. Maybe I can get her a portable pole through eBay? I'm sure I could learn.

i dont often go to strip clubs but if i do ill go to femaale strip clubs coz i aint gay. any way i have a six pack nice abs blond hair blue eyes and girls can't keep there hands off me

They must love the way you can spell and use proper grammar too.

I'm a dancer from Australia. The most a customer has ever spent on me, in one go, was $450 for just over an hour. I've only been a dancer for 1 year and 10 months... I have had maybe 2 or 3 customers that booked me out for the hour like this in the past year.