This guy I knows blowing hot and cold, one minute he doesn't want to know and I don't hear from him for ages the next he's ringing and txtg me. Normally I'm always there for him but this time Ive not returned his calls and it seems to have made him all the more eager to get in touch with me but I know the minute I respond he will loose interest again. What's a girl to do.

I don't think he likes you the way you think he does. He might be playing games with you or it makes him feel better to know that your always there for him for the taking if he decides to be with you. I think maybe its time to let go and move on?

Leave the games to the kids.

Or reference your responses the last time you asked...

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/he-keeps-blowing-hot-cold-328697.html

But since you have decided not to walk away from the bs, then you can expect to continue to feel this way.

If you chose to stay, which you have so far, don't expect things to change

Men are a creature of habit, you give them what they want they don't want it, you don't give it to them that's all they think about, they do all they can to have it. This is the problem if you just lay down he will have no respect for you. If you like this guy, you will have to change your game plan. Be confident, be assertive and don't be afraid to lose him. Once he gets it through his head you can't be walked on , and you don't come running to his every whim. One of two things will happen he will stop calling, or show true interest in you and start respecting you more. Don't give in be strong!! Good things come to those that wait. If he is worth it to you, make him respect you as a woman first before going any further with him.

The best indicator of future behavior is past behavior.

He won't stop as long as you keep allowing it.

Don't ever be so desperate for a mans attention that you sacrifice yourself worth.

Is this the same guy or a different one from your other posts?


https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/search.php?searchid=4080268

A man would be clear on his intentions, a boy wouldn't.

A man don't have time for games but a boy does.

If this post is about the same guy than the saga continues.