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hunter88
Mar 27, 2009, 02:46 PM
After dating the same guy for over a year and a half, he has started acting like saying I love you doesn't mean anything cause I know he loves me. And as if I lost my emotions all of a sudden and thinks that the things he says won't effect how I feel.

Where does this come from?

Nestorian
Mar 27, 2009, 03:01 PM
Could be a lot of reasons, you'd have to talk to your man, to find out for sure.

If it bothers you this much, try talking it through with him and getting an answer that you can really work with. Maybe couples counceling, or just a new spicy fling thing (like a hot date night! Just the two of you.) will spark a new interest. People tend to get bord very easily, especially now a days when there is so much new and intersting information out there to be had, there for more new and interesting expieriences. Try to keep it fresh, and let them know how you feel, be open and honest, or keep your worries to yourself. Either way, what is happening, is happening. So face it now, or face it later. It's up to you...

Peace and kindness.

lennore
Mar 27, 2009, 05:56 PM
After dating the same guy for over a year and a half, he has started acting like saying i love you doesn't mean anything cause I know he loves me. And as if i lost my emotions all of a sudden and thinks that the things he says wont effect how i feel.

Where does this come from?

''i hate this part right here'' have u ever heard that song? Is the part we are all afraid of, but it doesn't actually exist, we create it . Try new things,be creative, spent more time together like its your last day and be positive. That's all it takes to overcome this part.. u create this feeling so try not to think about it- everything's okay sweetheart move on.