View Full Version : My marriage is not working out
Keshy
Mar 27, 2009, 02:30 PM
I have been married for almost 5 years, at the start everything was great, after my first child my husband was beginning to change, he started to leave me alone for hours and stay out with friends after the second child he got worse, I ask him several times for the reason his answers were not convincible. My husband does not have sex with me now and leaves me alone with my kids for several hours, I only see him at lunch times or when he goes to bed. I feel that I am a sister to him more than a wife and the mother of his two beautiful daughters. What should I do?
Justwantfair
Mar 27, 2009, 02:34 PM
You should leave a situation that isn't healthy for you or your children.
You already know that.
Is he willing to go to couples counseling? Is he willing to work on the relationship? Do you think he is concerned that you might leave or does he just assume you will always be there? What do you do for you? Do you have a job or are you a stay at home mother?
rachelcuryy08
Mar 28, 2009, 09:56 PM
I think you need to love you first.sometime men take avantage of a good things that right in front of them that that when it gone they will be the one that's lost and lonely.If your husband don't want to go to counseling and try to make it work then I think it's time for you all to just lay it down.it take 2 to make a relationship no just 1 person.but if it was me I wouldn't stay it sounds like he wasn't ready when he married you.But keep your head up and be strong for your kid even if it's hard.