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Rjallen19b
Mar 26, 2009, 05:48 PM
Hey,

Well, I started dating this girl and we ended up breaking up but we still talk faithfully, She currently has a boyfriend who cannot stand me and me and her still talk without him knowing I was wondering I was with her today and our friend from up north and we were all talking and she was saying how he was bad too her and How she knows there is going to be no future of marriage between her and him. I still care for her a lot and she knows it and so do her friends and we all have a good feeling she is still having feelings for me I just don't know if I should wait and see if she comes around or just move on from her... :(... She tells me all the time how she knows that she is #1 to me and how I could never not talk to her and she is absoultly correct because of the strong feelings I have for her does anyone have any advice in this sittation cause I have no idea where to go with this now LOL ?

Rjallen19b
Mar 26, 2009, 11:58 PM
Hey,

Well, I started dating this girl and we ended up breaking up but we still talk faithfully, She currently has a boyfriend who cannot stand me and me and her still talk without him knowing I was wondering I was with her today and our friend from up north and we were all talking and she was saying how he was bad too her and How she knows there is going to be no future of marriage between her and him. I still care for her alot and she knows it and so do her friends and we all have a good feeling she is still having feelings for me I just don't know if I should wait and see if she comes around or just move on from her... :(... She tells me all the time how she knows that she is #1 to me and how I could never not talk to her and she is absoultly correct because of the strong feelings I have for her does anyone have any advice in this sittation cause I have no idea where to go with this now LOL ?



Also, to add on top of that me & another friend who lives on Campus at the college went to the food court and she called me and talked to me and had me come to the dorm to be with her and her roomates for the remander of the visiting hours of the campus I am so lost on what to do I mean it seems she still has feelings for me but I don't want to get hurt ? Anyone have any ideas ? Lol

I wish
Mar 27, 2009, 12:02 PM
Oh man, she seems soooo confused about what she wants. I don't think you should take anything she says too literally, she's probably changing ideas every hour.

She obviously still likes her current boyfriend or else they would have broken up already. People usually only talk about the bad parts of their relationships and not the good parts. She obviously still has feelings for you too, so she's making you hang around. It's mostly to provide her security, the guy who treats her better that day will get her attention.

You just have to decide what you want. If you want her back, tell her so. If she doesn't feel the same way, then you should block her out so that she won't continue to lead you on.