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Aparvarun
Mar 26, 2009, 12:38 AM
My sister has been married on 22nd of feb 2009.Her husband only selected her
And told her parents that he will marry her. But from the
Day one after marriage he tortured my sister by using bad harsh words,
Insulted her in every activities of her. He is also educated and
Wrking in a reputed IT concern. My sis also a master degree holder but working in a
Non mnc company. He also insist her to get place in an mnc and get highly paid
Equal to him. He didn't even touch my sister and doesn't even had eager to have sex with her till now.
He needs my sister to do what he tells only not any thing other than that.She was thinking that things will change and obeyed what he said with out uttering even a word against
Him. Even my sister tries to go close with him he neglects her.

Suddenly one day my sister got a chance to check out his mobile.

She saw a message which came from a lady that " u r his father , when i hug him
he smiles".She is very confused after seeing this message she also didn't ask him a word
About this to him. She keenly watched him from that day that
He will be always chating in the phone. And always deletes his inbox and sent items.
She is totally confused of these activities and simultaneously she could not bare the
Tortures given by him. She finally decided not to live with him and told every thing to her parents and
Inlaws. But her husbands acts like any thing that nothing wrong has happened.
But she is now stubborn not to live with him. Is she right?
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If she needs a divorce will she get a smooth divorce? What valid points she can keep in front for applying divorce?
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mudweiser
Mar 26, 2009, 12:50 AM
I believe she can still get an annulment instead of a divorce since it's been such a short time.

To get an annulment, you must meet some very specific criteria. If you don't qualify for this, you should be able to do a simple uncontested divorce. Most attorneys offer a free consultation where they will discuss the generalities of your case and how they think it would be best to proceed. Since she's been married for such a short time, any settlements should be relatively easy. She should call and get a free consultation or find out if there are free or no cost legal services available (call the bar association and ask).

She needs to go see a lawyer, pronto! This marriage is definitely not going to work from the way I see it.

MRS.S