happygirl5
Mar 25, 2009, 11:35 PM
Ok, this is a long story, but basically my boyfriend and I took a break--not because we didn't love each other or no want to be with each other, but a situation on my end with not wanting to have sex for awhile. We both cried but we said we would get back together. Well, things were fine, and we were even "dating" but then he starts to pull back. Mind you, during this time, school is sucking REALLY BAD for him, and I'm doing very well... but anyway, he starts telling me that he wants me to date other people, he's not good for me, and not to wait up for him... and I'm stupid enough to sleep with him because I'm scared right? I'm in this break and it's scary because I feel like I'm losing my best friend and just acting out of this fear with the whole sex during break thing... to make matters worse, there was this girl who had this CRAZY crush on him and would flirt with him, and his roommates say that he was neither really hot or cold to it, but really overall was a little mean to her even though they got a long as friends... during this time they're laughing about it and john tells me not to worry about kira. We even had a few talks and he's scared about picking up some bad habits and wants to himself together because he feels he's going no where. Well there was a party at his place and she was there, and he got really high and drunk. She came into his room after everyone left, and kissed him. They ended up making out and having sex. Of course the girl tells me that it was more than a one night stand and that he told about me like us being different. He says he didn't like her and it really wasn't a conscious decision nor did he plan on having that happen, and that he told me because he still loved me. We've gotten back together (that's when the girl tried talking to me). He even told one friend he didn't like her and another that it was like comparing a little girl to a woman (me being the woman). I love him very much, and I feel good about us being together--but I'm still healing from the situation. Is there any advice?