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sendittozach
Mar 23, 2009, 12:04 AM
Ok, hello everyone, I had met this girl at a small get together at my apartment. She was a friend of a friend. We began seeing each other and have been together for 2 months. I was told that she had a history of well sleeping with many people out of a relationship. All was well, She and her bestie started going to a club on 18+ night and had met this guy that she dances with once a week. This was fine and it was what it was, until i find this guy was asking for naked pics of her and such. She said she had made it fully aware that she was with me. I told her i thought ide be cool with it but im really not and would appreciate it if she wouldnt talk to him anymore. She is very flirtatious and a Tease which i have no problem with as its fun. Well her attitude became very odd and she became silent, which bugged the hell out of me. When i would ask and tell her "look, i can't read your mind and i understand you need you time sometime but this is getting rediculous. Your quiet all the time, ide like to know what runs through your head, silly or not." I brought this up many times and yes i knew eventually she would get tired of me asking. But i feel if she would like me to drop it then stop acting so odd. Well this eventually lead to us going seperate ways. I left her alone for a few days, and told her to call me if she wanted to or dont if she didnt but this is the last time im trying. I talked and told her that shes going to have to work with me 50/50 and start acting like shes with me, and that yes I know you need a lil time to think, take it, but I wont be here for to long, I have my life ahead of me.

Am i going about this correctly? I mean at first Oh man it hurt my soul. But then it succombed to more of a mad feeling and now i would like to try it again but I dont think im so dependent on being with her now. What do yall think? Need more info or?

kctiger
Mar 23, 2009, 05:56 AM
This is a classic case of what it is like to date a complete sl*t!! Sorry to be an a$$, but that is my take on it. You are better off without her. She can go off and "tease" all the guys in the world now.

I wish
Mar 23, 2009, 06:59 AM
I got to agree with kctiger. She doesn't seem like the most faithful person. The more you want to change her, the more she will ignore you. Is that the type of girl that you want?