sendittozach
Mar 23, 2009, 12:04 AM
Ok, hello everyone, I had met this girl at a small get together at my apartment. She was a friend of a friend. We began seeing each other and have been together for 2 months. I was told that she had a history of well sleeping with many people out of a relationship. All was well, She and her bestie started going to a club on 18+ night and had met this guy that she dances with once a week. This was fine and it was what it was, until i find this guy was asking for naked pics of her and such. She said she had made it fully aware that she was with me. I told her i thought ide be cool with it but im really not and would appreciate it if she wouldnt talk to him anymore. She is very flirtatious and a Tease which i have no problem with as its fun. Well her attitude became very odd and she became silent, which bugged the hell out of me. When i would ask and tell her "look, i can't read your mind and i understand you need you time sometime but this is getting rediculous. Your quiet all the time, ide like to know what runs through your head, silly or not." I brought this up many times and yes i knew eventually she would get tired of me asking. But i feel if she would like me to drop it then stop acting so odd. Well this eventually lead to us going seperate ways. I left her alone for a few days, and told her to call me if she wanted to or dont if she didnt but this is the last time im trying. I talked and told her that shes going to have to work with me 50/50 and start acting like shes with me, and that yes I know you need a lil time to think, take it, but I wont be here for to long, I have my life ahead of me.
Am i going about this correctly? I mean at first Oh man it hurt my soul. But then it succombed to more of a mad feeling and now i would like to try it again but I dont think im so dependent on being with her now. What do yall think? Need more info or?
Am i going about this correctly? I mean at first Oh man it hurt my soul. But then it succombed to more of a mad feeling and now i would like to try it again but I dont think im so dependent on being with her now. What do yall think? Need more info or?