I am in middle school and have been friends with these two girls. The first girl I have been friends with since kindergarten and the second girl I have been friends with for the past two years. Girl number 1 (who I have been friends with for a long time) is mad at me and girl number 2 ALL THE TIME! When girl #1 is mad she will give me this grouchy look that says go to hell. And, every time that I want to talk to her when she is mad at me she ignores me, gets that look on her face, and clams up. I always have to stay with her and I can't talk to anyone else, or she will get mad. Girl number 2 (who has been my friend for the past 2 years) is insecure. She has all these medical thoughts because her mom has some serious medical conditions. One day she has athsma and the next day she has arthritis. She is very very insecure and has been talking about me to girl #1 behind my back and I don't want to know what girl #2 is saying about me! I found out from some other girls and she thinks that I am supposed to be OK with that? I am ready to leave both of these girls for some other girls who I want to get to know better. Every person that I ask help from doesn't know what I should do. Please someone help me soon! I am stuck in a bad situation so please help me!

Ugh. Middle school is so hard, and so dumb!
I would just say "hey, either you stop talking about me, or I'm not hangin gout with you anymore." People have more respect for you in the long run when you stick up for yourself. Find other friends.

And just remember, your life will be so much bigger than middle school.