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flyboy7
Mar 18, 2009, 01:36 AM
I just met someone new about 3 weeks ago... we seem to have a lot in common... the only thing is that we rarely talk and I'm wondering is she interested or what?. the first day I met her I called once the same night and once the second night... no answer... then she calls me back three days later saying she is sorry how she was so unavailable and that she would like to talk... conversation was great, but it only lasted for a short time... so I let another couple of days go by and tried her again no answer... then of course she calls me back with the same line... im no fool... I figured she may be seeing someone else... but I don't want to jump to conclusions... then finally after about three weeks of phonetag... I offer to meet her somewhere and she's like I would love to go out with u(blah, blah, blah,) but my friends from out of town are coming and I made tentative plans with them but when we are done if its not too late I will def. call u... okay she text messaged me the nxt day saying... oh your a doll and I hope we can meet soon... after that I stopped calling her, which has now been 3 days... (note I called her maybe twice a week) we had two or three great conversations on the phone... she seems so into me , but I don't know? Are you thinking what I'm thinking or what? p.s. I know with any other girl I would have been gone but she seems to be a really god-fearing person like me and I really believe she likes me... after all her friend embarrassed her by telling me she thought I was cute.. thats how we met... I was interested as well and I approached her... after her friend drilled me on are you a christian, looking for a wife, blah , blah , blah, and realizing me and her friend have a lot in common... sorry I know this is long just wanted to give you the entire story... what do you think?

tickle
Mar 18, 2009, 04:15 AM
I think just drop it. If she was really interested she would have jumped at the chance to get to know you better.


Tick

chrissymarie
Mar 19, 2009, 12:42 PM
I think she's seeing someone else. You sound like the guy I was trying to see when my ex and I were finally breaking things off permanently. I think that guy would have said the same things about me lol.

liz28
Mar 19, 2009, 02:52 PM
Yes, she seems like she's all about games and might even like you chasing her. Believe me it doesn't how busy you are you make time for people that you want to make time for. However, it doesn't seems like she want to but instead she gives you excuses.

Time to not waste another second on her and move on.

artlady
Mar 19, 2009, 02:58 PM
If I were interested in a guy I would make time for him.I think she may be interested in being a friend or even a phone friend but I would not pursue this any longer as her actions show she is otherwise occupied.