Edited for chat/speak and bad grammer.

Meet a girl while in Iraq in 06, I found her again now we are dating, and thinking ahead, I asked her to marry me, she said yes, then hell broke loose... Her uncle past away and now her aunt isn't doing well was hospialized after the funeral and she wants to make sure her aunt get proper care , she is a nurse by trade, haven't spoken her in a couple of days. She sent me a text to relax, that she isn't going anywhere, and she loves me.. Im going insane not hearing from her
Should I stay, or should I go??

Thanks

You should go, if you don't understand family obligations.

Really, you want to go...
The poor girl is going through a rough time... she's gone through 2 bad things in a row... you, it sucks that you guys aren't communicating and spending time together..

But its pretty obvious she isn't going anywhere and still wants you..
So I'm surprised your even asking...

Just endure time a bit more..
Just have patience.. and things will turn better I hope..