I am afraid cause I am 10 and this guy in my class is in love with me... :eek:
I am scared because I do not know what to do, he always says he loves me, says I'm cute, hot, and sexy, it annoys me. I told my teacher and she told the principal, but my fat principal didn't do anything! :mad::mad: Please comment what I should do... ( again I am in grade 5 and don't know what to do!! ) :confused::confused::confused:

Hi Snowbie...
Is this guy in your grade? I just wanted to make sure. You did a good thing by telling your teacher, and I'm sorry that your principal didn't do anything about it - that's not right. But, at least your teacher knows, so she'll be aware of it in class. Also, let your parents know, especially if this boy is scaring you. Try to ignore it as much as possible - which I know is really hard! But, sometimes these kids just do it to get your reaction because you give him good reactions. If you ignore it he may just get bored and move on to something else. But good for you for taking action and telling someone! Just keep your teacher and your parents in the loop so they know what's going on, so if it gets worse, you'll have people there to help. I hope things work out well.

Tell your parents asap!

Hi Snowbie...
Is this guy in your grade?? I just wanted to make sure. You did a good thing by telling your teacher, and I'm sorry that your principal didn't do anything about it - that's not right. But, at least your teacher knows, so she'll be aware of it in class. Also, let your parents know, especially if this boy is scaring you. Try to ignore it as much as possible - which I know is really hard! But, sometimes these kids just do it to get your reaction because you give him good reactions. If you ignore it he may just get bored and move on to something else. But good for you for taking action and telling someone! Just keep your teacher and your parents in the loop so they know what's going on, so if it gets worse, you'll have people there to help. I hope things work out well.

Truth is,
He is, but he failed grade one and is supposed to be in grade 6, lol...
But he is in grade 5, I don't like telling my parents so that is out of the question...
:confused: So Yeah.. my teacher tries to help he just spazzes and she has to be nice to him.! Epps! :eek:

Tell your parents asap!

Read what I quoted on Kellbells

You might think you don't want to tell your parents but you should especially if the teacher couldn't solve the problem.

The principal should have some type of intervention between your parents and his. So please inform them of this situation because they should be aware of it.

Liz is right (Had to spread the rep Liz!)

It may be hard to talk to your parents but ultimately they love you and want to protect you. Tell them so they can talk with the teacher and principal to stop the harassment.

Hi, Snowbie!

It's been recommended that you tell your parents. I'm sure that if someone is scaring you at school, that your parents would want to know. When they do know, I'm sure that they can get the principal and the teacher to do something.

Thanks!

Is there anything to do then tell my parents?
It is spring break so I will give it time and see if he stops, but I need more tips!
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Life is like a river...
It Goes on and on and on and on...
You need to move on!

Hi!
Well, the reason everyone is telling you to tell your parents is because you're obviously reaching out because you do not know what to do. If he's SCARING you, that's a big issue. If he's just annoying you like a 5th grade boy may do, then just try to ignore him and see how that works. He may just leave you alone because you're not interesting to him anymore. You're teacher knows, so if he gets that bad, I'm sure she/he will take action. So, if you won't tell your parents (because obviously none of us can make you do anything), then just avoid him - even if he gets sooooo annoying that it's driving you crazy - ignoring works. If he touches you in any way though (hitting, pushing, or even try to kiss you) - then you REALLY have to tell someone, because that is soooo not cool. Take people's advice - that's what you're here for. Good luck!

Thanks! I will try, but any other tips would help 2

One thing you can do is go to the principal himself and tell him how it is really bothering you and how scared you are... But take your teacher with you.. Because if you go alone he might not give you the respect you need since you are young, having the teacher there as a back up is very useful..
Good luck..
I wish you the best..

My principal a fat lady

Still that doesn't mean you shouldn't go and talk to her...
She has to have some feelings...

She she is rude we did... she didn't do anything

This boy is harassing you and that's a form of bullying. It needs to stop. If you really dislike what's going on, you need to tell your parents. They will find out anyway if the principal has to get involved, then your parents will wonder why you didn't tell them.

As for the boy, stand up for yourself and don't act like he scares you because that's just giving him more power to keep doing what he's doing. Tell him flat out, "I don't like you. Leave me alone." If you keep turning him down and laugh at him, he should start to back off.

I do he just doesn't stop...

It sounds like it's time to get your parents involved. Maybe you and your parents should sit down with your principal.



If this boy is scaring you then the fact that your mom might bug you shouldn't matter. You need to do whatever you can so that this boy leaves you alone. You should also read the rules before comment posts.

Ok but as I said I will see what it is like after spring break

Sweety this could be nothing to worry about or it could be something to worry about. You are too young to deal with this all by yourself. If your principal didn't help and your teacher isn't helping the only people left are your parents. That's what they are for my dear. It is our sole purpose as parents to protect our children from any harm or danger that may present itself. I think that your mom and dad will be a lot more understanding than you give them credit for. You may be pleasantly surprised that it brings you and your mom closer because of it. Go ahead sweety don't be afraid talk to your mom and dad that's what they are there for.

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I don't understand your response my dear??

Lol Can I at least wait till after spring break because I don't ant it to sound random

Oh absolutely honey, you let us know when you are ready to talk more. But remember just because you put off doing something doesn't make it go away :-)

You seem to have a lot of problems with boys, especially for a 10 year old.

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No I only like guys I am waiting till 15-16 to date but this guy scares me!

Then, like the others have told you, you have to tell your parents.

You're too young to have to deal with this yourself.

Why don't you feel you can tell your parents? Is there a problem?

If you won't tell your parents,which is what you should do ,then ignore him.If he doesn't get a reaction out of you it will get boring after awhile.
You could also ask him to stop and tell him you do not feel the same way.
You can also go to the school counselor on your own and tell them.

This guy should scare you... he is saying inappropriate words to you...

The people here gave you great advice, so take them in to consideration..

Is there any particular reason why you dont/didnt want to tell your parents?

I think it's the right decision to wait after spring break too... and I agree with kanicky73 when she said "just because you put off doing something doesnt make it go away"

Let us know what happens after the first contact with the boy..

Good luck!

First of all, dear, if you are 10 you should not be talking to people you don't know on the internet. You are very young and people can be very manipulative and take advantage of people of all ages, but particularly children, quite easily.

As for your problem with this boy, just tell him, "Please leave me alone. I'm too young for a boyfriend and I don't feel that way about you".

When he sexually harassed me what should I do? ( he has before)

When he sexually harrasses me what should I do? ( he has before)

Sexually harassed you? What specifically do you mean? What has he done previously that you might consider to be sexual harassment, please?

Thanks!

I think it is time that you shared your feelings with an adult.
You and I have had this conversation before.

If you want to private message me please do so .I will be happy to talk to you in private.
Do that.

I don't think you need to be putting things out publicly that should be private.

You could get in trouble for that,it is called slander.

If you want to talk.
You have a computer so I assume you are not that deprived.
Tell us why you don't feel you can tell your parents about this jerk?
Don't you think your parents want to protect you?
I don't get why you won't tell them ?
Tell me..

This boy is scary and sexual harassing you. I think this is more of a reason to tell your mom now rather than later because the situation has gotten out of hand and nowadays you have to take peoole words seriously. Again, tell your mom!

I will tell my parents

When Snowbie, I don't want to hear "I am going tell my parents". I want to hear "I told my parents".

While your prolonging this serious issue it could only get more out of his hands. This boy parents needs to be aware of their son inapropriate actions and the school. They have rules against this. You go to school to learn not to be harass.

He stopped, thanks!

I am happy he did Snowbie so you can go to school without being harass by this boy.