Well I met this boy... he asked me if we can hook up but I said he's 20... next day he went really far and asked if he can take my virginity

{mostly unitelligible chat speak edited out-<>}

Well I met this boy ... he asked me if we can hook up but i said hes 20 ... next day he went really far and asked if he can take my virginity


Your post about this 20 yr old boy and you was removed because it was mostly chat speak. This site is not a chat or IM so using chat speak is neither necessary or allowed. However, I decided to reinstate an edited version because I think this is too important to not answer.

I'm telling you right now that what you should be doing is showing your parents what he said about taking your virginity. This perv is a sexual predator and belongs in jail, not preying on innocents like you. For him to have sex with you, even with your consent (which you shouldn't be giving anyway) would be illegal just about anywhere in the world.

PLEASE show your parents what he wrote immediately.

A 12 year old child, with a 20 year old man, is not girlfriend/boyfriend.

It is not an appropriate relationship under any circumstances, surely you know this, or suspect this is terribly wrong, and dangerous.

That you refer to him as your boyfriend has me worried that you won't tell your parents because you may know how they will react.

Please be aware that you have the option to speak to the police, your school guidance counsellor, your family doctor, a help line, any trusted adult, a friends parents, a minister, etc.

For your own safety, end the relationship. Any 20 year old man wanting to take the virginity of a 12 year old child is a predator.

He is using you, get out!!

Yes report this to a adult, what he is asking is a criminal act there is no "love" to this

Any man who wants to hook up with a minor is a sexual preditor. You need to report him to your parents and the authorities. This person is sick and you need to stay away from him. Report him!

Edited version of what everybody else wrote...

* He is not your boyfriend.
* Your 12 he is 20.
* He is a predator, probably a rapist and you need to report him.
* If you do not report anything, Your allowing yourself to be a victim of sexual assault or even more and if this person is doing that to you. How many other people is he doing it too?

It is sick and perverted...

I co-sign what everyone else here says and also add that you shouldn't even be thinking about sex with ANYONE at your age. 12 is too young to become sexually active. You are not able to handle the possible consequences of a sexual relationship at your age.

Everyone else has hit the nail on the head about the age difference. It's wrong and you need to tell your parents!

I can only say I got sick to my stomach when reading this thread!

This man is a sick whacko who should be immediately arrested and placed into prison for eternity.

He does not care about you and is only telling you what he has probably learned from doing this before.He is a child molester/rapist.Do not talk to him again talk to an adult you trust or the police.

I just wanted to say that what these people are saying is true. You may think they are all crazy or don't know your situation, but we've lived to see it happen way too many times! Every adult knows that 12 is too young... you are too young, even though I'm sure you act older for your age, especially if you want to date a 20 year old. The fact that he wants to take your virginity is the FIRST sign that you shouldn't trust him - no 20 year old man in his right mind would want to take the virginity of a 12 year old girl. Take your time and find a boy your age... I'm sure you will find one, and please PLEASE tell your parents about this guy. You will be so happy with yourself later if you do, and then he won't be out there doing that to anyone else your age. Please be responsible... this is serious.

OMG where did you meet this freak? Trust me when I tell you tell your parents or just call the police they will tell you parents. You see me of all people know what you are going through you see about 2 years ago I moved to CA we thought our neighbors were really nice people after a while when my mom was at work he would flirt with me OK I am 14 he is 64 that is messed up he asked my to have sex, date, be his girlfriend, allwways told me how sexy I was, called me all the time at school asked for sex told me how much he loved me it went on for about 9 months then he realized he could not have me so hit went after my sister she was younger but she would just have to do so he hit on her for about 2 days then he took her to his house and started to try to have sex with her she luckly go away just in time. When my mom got home we called the police but gues what it took the DA till oct. of last year to get him in jail and he will be out in April of this year so I gues I did not need to tell you this be see I did not tell my mom and look what happened so please tell your parents they might freak but its because the love you you are there little baby.

Stop having any interaction with this guy he only wants you for sex not a relationship.

You don't know what to do well I will tell you that you need to run to your nearest phone and dial 911 and tell them. They will do the rest.

Btw, why are you putting yourself out there by talking to adult men? Do you watch the news and see how many missing teens are out there because some of them wanted to grow up fast by talking to these sick guys like yourself? They only want sexual relations with you not a relationship. They have a name for them, as already said, and it called a pervert that preys on little girls like you. Tell someone and stop to these older guys because it ain't cool and it can have a ungly outcome for you so please be more safe.

He is a predator, probably a rapist and you need to report him to the police and/or your parents! You are in danger! This is serious! Get away as far as you can from him!

Everyone here is right! You do not want your innocence took away from you like this... this man needs to be put in jail and although you might not want to do this but he could turn violent, and by saying violent I mean that if you don't give him what he wants he might just take what he wants. Talk to an adult or call the police... whatever you do stay away from this man!

OK, people, the OP has not returned since she posted this. The last few responses have not added anything to what has already been said.

I don't want to close this in case she does come back. But lets not add anything further unless she does.