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bandgeek121
Mar 12, 2009, 04:53 PM
OK, so I'm stuck on these three guys, david, jacob, and ralph. I kind of like david, kind of like jacob, and kind of like ralph. I think david hates me, whatever, I know jacob likes me, and I have a feeling ralph likes me too. Forgetting about david, what should I do about jacob and ralph? Jacob, ralph and I are friends, what should I do? Should I go to the dance with jacob and be just friends with ralph or wait and see if I'm right about ralph liking me? I feel like such a SL*T but I know I am not

barbiechick123
Mar 12, 2009, 05:52 PM
How old are you? Anyway, your not a slut for liking different guys.

I think you should go to the dance with david, but nothing like official, just as friends and see who you like more at the dance.. get to know each one better, it'll be easier.

starbuck8
Mar 12, 2009, 06:10 PM
Bandgeek121. I don't think you should go with any of them. You might disagree with this, but hear me out. All 3 of them are going to be at the dance anyway aren't they? Do all of your girlfriends have dates? If not, team up and go with one of them. It doesn't matter if they do or not. Get yourself dressed up, and show that you have confidence in yourself. Go and ask all 3 to dance, as well as other boys who might not have a date. Even if you are not interested in them.

Trust me. David, Ralph, and Jacob will all be watching if they like you. They will come and ask YOU to dance. Show them that you don't need any of them to have fun, and you are independent and don't need a boy on your arm to feel secure.

If you walk in with the right attitude, and look like you own the room, you will find out which one likes you right away.

Have fun at your dance, but don't stress over which boy you should ask to go with you.

barbiechick123
Mar 12, 2009, 09:58 PM
What, NO? Doesn't she want to go to a dance with the guy she likes? I thought David liked her... Im confused.

WOOPS! I meant that Jacob guy.. sorry, misunderstanding!

starbuck8
Mar 13, 2009, 01:16 AM
What, NO?! Doesnt she want to go to a dance with the guy she likes? I thought David liked her... Im confused.

WOOPS! I meant that Jacob guy.. sorry, misunderstanding!

I gotcha! Misunderstanding. ;)

bandgeek121
Mar 18, 2009, 02:58 PM
Hey everyone JACOB ASKED ME OUT!! YAY!! Thanks for the advice! :D :D :D

starbuck8
Mar 18, 2009, 03:15 PM
That's great! I hope you have a good time with Jacob! When is the dance? Let us know how it goes okay? :D

bandgeek121
Mar 18, 2009, 03:59 PM
The dance is some time in April, like the 17th, I'll keep you informed :) I was so excited that I went dress shopping but I didn't find the "right" dress yet. Yay!! I feel good today!! So excited!! Can't wait!!

jrsg
Mar 19, 2009, 02:05 PM
YEA! I love it when things work out like this! A success story is so nice to hear!

And congratulations!