notwhoyouthink
Mar 12, 2009, 11:13 AM
Me and my boyfriend had been together for almost 8 months. I was very mature, he wasn't.
At first I was very harsh to him about it, but recently I tried to apologize and be better. Which I was. Even he admitted it.
Then he dumped me. He said:
"I haven't been happy for awhile, I don't know why. I need time to figure out what i want, and i'm not sure about us"
He told me he hasn't been happy for awhile, but he made it look like it was college stress.
Am I a constant reminder that he needs to grow up, and that's why he left?
Is he mad that during a fight a week ago, I made him cry because he thought we would break up? Is he scared now?
Did we move too quickly and he got bored?
Up until three hours before he dumped me, he kept huggin me, kissing me, and telling me that I have nothing to worry about.
And now he has gone and added this girl he hooked up with two years ago on Facebook after I asked him to delete her.
This is his week of spring break.
So basically, does he really need time to figure things out alone, or is he interested in this girl again?
At first I was very harsh to him about it, but recently I tried to apologize and be better. Which I was. Even he admitted it.
Then he dumped me. He said:
"I haven't been happy for awhile, I don't know why. I need time to figure out what i want, and i'm not sure about us"
He told me he hasn't been happy for awhile, but he made it look like it was college stress.
Am I a constant reminder that he needs to grow up, and that's why he left?
Is he mad that during a fight a week ago, I made him cry because he thought we would break up? Is he scared now?
Did we move too quickly and he got bored?
Up until three hours before he dumped me, he kept huggin me, kissing me, and telling me that I have nothing to worry about.
And now he has gone and added this girl he hooked up with two years ago on Facebook after I asked him to delete her.
This is his week of spring break.
So basically, does he really need time to figure things out alone, or is he interested in this girl again?