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the parghson
Mar 12, 2009, 02:30 AM
Edited for lousy spelling, bad grammer, and chatspeak!!

Can you guys help me out here... I know this girl for like 3-4 yrs now and I want 2 ask her out... bt I don't think she likes me... yet I think she likes me... usually I think everything very logically and clearly... bt I don't know what 2 think here... I mean... when she came in grade 6 I didn't like her... but I think she liked me back then or I think she did as she would laugh at my every joke... and stare at me constantly... she would only look away if I caught her doing it... then in 7th she stopped staring at me that much even though I could still see her doing it... I started 2 like her in class 7... and now I'm in 9th grade... we're in the same section... she still continues to shoot glances at me... bt doesn't laugh at my jokes... though I sometimes catch her laughing quietly... we've only talked on windows messenger... as I feel reluctant to open a conversation with her... when I told her about my other gf's on messenger... she seemed really interested and also didn't believe me at first... now can you guys tell me whether I'm losing my head or is there something over here... coz Ive never felt about any other girl like this... and am really looking forward to your avice... :confused::o

Edited for lousy spelling, bad grammer, and chatspeak!!

talaniman
Mar 12, 2009, 05:18 AM
Straight up, talk to her, and let her know you like her, and see how she reacts. Your inability to communicate is as bad as your spelling, so improve them both.

Romefalls19
Mar 12, 2009, 05:47 AM
Agreed... You need to improve communication skills of you are in for a punch in the gut in the real world.

MicroMama
Mar 12, 2009, 11:15 AM
Don't tell her you have other gf's! She'll see right through it and resent you for lying or she'll think you're taken and will move on to another guy.

Why don't you messenge her and write something like, "Nah, I don't have any gf's, you're right. But I wish I did." Just leave it at that... she'll be wondering...

Try to be cheeky, even a little flirtatious. You don't have to come right out and tell her you like her but you can make it obvious. Complement her too... about her clothes, hair, a smart answer she gave in class, that kind of thing.

Be her friend and everything else should fall into place if she likes you too.

the parghson
Mar 12, 2009, 06:44 PM
Thanks guys... so do u guys think she likes me..