Me and my ex split up middle of last year, he said that if we got back togeather it would just go wrong again like the other times. He wanted to have a break and then get back togeather and it would be a proper new beginning. Then we stopped talking about 3 months ago and out of the blue he text me telling me that I'm buetiful and incredible after a few texts I haven't heard from him again! And it was my 21st birthday yesterday and he didn't wish me happy birthday or anything, do you think he still cares or is he playing games?

He was between females, and decided to check his ex, and so he called, but it should be very obvious he doesn't care, and found something better to occupy himself with.

Forget him, and his selfish game.

He is playing games. He was looking for attention. Hopefully you have moved on during the months since you broke up. Do not allow yourself to move backwards by getting caught up in his games.

Don't be affected by his text. If he truly cared trust me you wouldn't have to ask that question. Forget him and his games

He is playing games, let him play with himself for awhile

Now I can't stop thinking about him again though, I didn't think he would text me again now I could expect one anytime and I'm trying to move on, meet someone else but now it feels like I'm back at the beginning again. How do I tell him not to contact me again without sounding dramatic or over the top?

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How can I tell him not to contact me again without sounding dramatic or over the top or telling him how it makes me feel because I've never told him how he affects me

Honestly, I wouldn't even bother. Just don't text him back or answer his calls [if he does]. Chances are this guy just wants you when he wants you.

Good job on moving on! Keep doing it, life can only get easier/better from here.



MRS.S

now i can't stop thinking about him again tho, i didnt think he would text me again now i could expect one anytime and im trying to move on, meet someone else but now it feels like im back at the beginning again. how do i tell him not to contact me again without sounding dramatic or over the top?


Simple change your number. No explanation needed.

now i can't stop thinking about him again tho, i didnt think he would text me again now i could expect one anytime and im trying to move on, meet someone else but now it feels like im back at the beginning again. how do i tell him not to contact me again without sounding dramatic or over the top?

Don't tell him - that will just drag things out. Just ignore him. It might be difficult, but it's the only way to move on.

Text him back, leave me the freak alone you grimy b@st@rd. Either be straight or ignore him!!!