Sbrom_x
Mar 10, 2009, 07:34 AM
Heyy
I am adopted and was and really quite scared to meet my real mum :(
I know its kind of sad but I am relly worried
Should I be?
Xx:D
ChihuahuaMomma
Mar 10, 2009, 09:48 AM
It's normal to be nervous, but just show her how well you've done.
Synnen
Mar 10, 2009, 10:31 AM
No one can tell you what your meeting will be like, if you actually DO have a reunion.
I look forward to meeting my daughter (who was placed for adoption years ago) when she turns 18--and I think that most birthmothers DO look forward to it. However, I know I wasn't her "mom", and would rather be her friend when she is old enough to look for me.
It's normal to be nervous and a little scared about the unknown--but remember that she chose adoption so that you could have a better life. There isn't love greater than that.