So when me and my boyfriend first started dating we were having sex everyday. Now it's only about once a week and I always have to be the one to bring it up. He says that's all I care about when it's honestly not but isn't sex and intimacy half of the relationship? He hardly even kisses me except when he leaves for work. He says we don't have sex during the week because he's always tired from work so I tried to understand that but even on the weekends it doesn't even seem like he wants to. It really confuses and upsets me cause I don't know what's going on at all I've never been in a situation like this before. I'm only 18 so shouldn't I be having sex more than once a week or every other week? Also the other night he invited some girl over and I wasn't feel well so stayed in bed and he told me they were going to his friends house around 1am and he didn't get back till 12pm the next day. He claims he's known her for 4 years and has never even kissed her. I've always thought of him as a good guy but now I honestly don't know. Am I being paranoid?

Something IS wrong here. You need to sit him down and have a nice talk. He went home with some girl and was out all night. He DID do something, and kissing would be the least of it, I'm sure. Your relationship is heading downhill, Fast! Communicate!

You deserve to be with someone who is mentally and physically nterested in you.

I'd look to new people.

No need to rush into another relationship, but you might be done with this guy. Not just because he doesn't want sex as much as you, but because he wants to be free to have other girls in is bed and keep hs own ours... Not good for you.