Well. I'm fifteen, and I'm a freshman. I've been talking to this amazing guy. He's in some of my classes, and we text a lot, and myspace. I love being around him, he makes me feel good. So we've been talking for 5 months now, he's liked me so much since the beginning of the year.. and he's been wanting to go out with me for a long time. So January 30 2009, I told him that I was ready to go out with him. I felt so comfortable around him. I felt like I knew him. So as time went on, I've been hearing my friends that have known him a long time tell me that all he wants is sex, and he's going to play you. He has actually been a big jerk to me, and he does has mood swings kind of and he gets mad over dumb stuff. Sometimes he will mention to me that he wants sex, and tell me about it. But then ill be like no, I don't want it. Or yeah. I only said yeah cause I was afraid that he was going to get mad or break up with me.. I know. Ughhhhh! Then today, I broke up with him cause I heard a lot of stuff going around about him, and he tells me stuff about it too.. and so I found out that he was going to break up with me in 2 days, and I know this for a fact. And so I broke up with him earlier, I ruined me, I felt something with him. I was in love with him, like forreal. I felt lost. But he wants sex from every girl just about, and I don't know. He made me fall in love with him. I fell for it. And now I'm scared and I don't know what to do? Should we just be friends? I'd like that, but I don't know. HELP?

Number one girl your young and you will probably look back at it later on on life and laugh . If your not ready to have sex then don't let anyone force you to have it , you guys might have started on good terms but if he just wants sex then he not the one for you. There more than sex when it comes to a relationship. He is young and will mature later on in life so will you . Also listening to what others say can be hard , yes I remember my freshmen year I know , but don't let it ruin you, even though it might hurt. You were at first SMART for telling him the truth that you don't want to sleep with him. You can be friend with him but it going to be hard cause you do have feelings for him. Also the love thing don't get it twisted , you can have love for someone meaning that you love their personality and who they are but being in love is different than that and it take two to work on love . Just make sure your doing good in school. I know boys can be jerks lol

For a time being, it you might feel sad and keep wanting to go back. But think about long term. IF you know for sure that all he want is sex, and you don't like it, then its better to leave him, at least for now. If you are looking for something real, wait for it. I am going through the similar phase right now. And I know its so difficult "cause you thought you were in love." But everything else expect for you thinking that you are in love points towards the fact that this guy is not right. On the top of it, you are way too young to get seriously involved. Trust me you don't want to get physical at this point of age. So let him go and see if he comes to realize what his real feelings are for you. Control yourself and act normal.

Nothing lasts forever, so the sadness will past. There will be plenty of other guys out there. Never frown because you don't know who's falling in love with your smile