View Full Version : Confused on what he really wants from me
kaitlyn2617
Mar 3, 2009, 10:54 PM
Well my boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 months, he hasn't told me he loves me, I know it takes time to fall in love, but it almost seems as if all he really wants is to be friends, and be able to do stuff with each other, I really strongly think I'm in love with him, but how can I know if he really wants to be in this relationship or if I'm just wasting all of my time with him? I really want to make our relationship work out, but it feels like he will never love me... I give him everything he wants, am I doing something wrong? I really need help... please... :confused:
CyCervantes
Mar 4, 2009, 12:17 AM
I think you should give it more time and it also sounds like you're giving into the relationship too much. It should be that you both meet half ways and if you are not being treated the way you deserve maybe it's not meant to be. It's also too soon to say I love you...
yaode3zy
Mar 4, 2009, 01:53 AM
I love you is a strong word and I think Love can happen in any amount of time. Love is allowing yourself to be vulnerable..
This is a rule I tell my close female friends- tip toe your way into the relationship. If you think he is not feeling the same for you, then try something that will keep them guessing.
For me, what turns me on from my past affairs is a lady that can keep me guessing. I don't want it ALL too fast, even though my present state of mind may differ.
Don't give it all away too fast, miss. It'll make you more vulerable to getting hurt and it might have the guy lose interest too early in the relationship.
Goodluck, Kaitlyn