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Iamshe234
Mar 3, 2009, 01:19 PM
Ok I have a 5month baby girl. An I love her so much an couldn't live with out her.
But I Have this feeling that she is daddy attached. I can get her to smile an every thing but when she see her daddy she just miss giggles always laughs an all he has to do is look at her. I have to make face for her to laugh. Some what I am a little jealous because she cry allot when I have her but she cry mabye once when he around it kind not fair. (I know I sound like a child their). So am I doing something wrong are does she just like her daddy more?


Thanks
Iamshe234
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kp2171
Mar 3, 2009, 01:26 PM
Please be patient.

My son was "more attached" to his mother when younger... but, in time, we found our "different roles" for him. He loves to climb on me... I am his "jungle gym"... I am his silly space. My wife is his snuggle zone, his quiet time...

Don't fret or worry one moment about this.

My son frets when his mother has to leave on a trip. That doesn't mean he doesn't love me. Doesn't mean I'm less than her.

Your child is Your Child. Don't fret about "preferences"... not one bit.

My son, when younger, would calm down against his mother faster than he would with me... would sleep next to her more than me...

It doesn't matter... your child will come to know your love over time... so be patient... be understanding... your child loves you more than you can know... even if sometimes the scales are tipped in one direction over another.

Your child needs your love more than you know... even when it might seem like things are skewed one way more than another.

In time, all will even out.