Every day in gym class there are these guy's that won't leave me alone. They sit by me and move my friends a way from me. When they are siting by me they were taping me on the back, pushing me side to side, and rubing my back. I want them to stop,but I don't know how to get them to stop. I told the counciler and one guy stopped but that leaves three more guy's still doing it. I've told them to stop, but they aren't listening. I've told my boyfriend all he said was oh OK. So I don't know what to do will someone help me figure out what to do.

Well if I were you I'll tell my parents to come in the school and talk to the counciler and probably they can work something out. Have you told your parents about it?

Also if your boyfriend is just pushing it off to the side and saying "oh ok" then you need to leave him as well because it can soon start to make you feel like you can't stop them at all. So if he isn't going to help you leave him tell your parents.

I told my parents but they didn't do anything. And well if I break it off with my boyfriend then I can't date until I graduate high school.

Dang I can't see why your parents did'nt do anything. But I Got a better idea, find a teacher that you really TRUST and tell her what's going on, and I bet she/he will DO something about it.

Go to the principle and tell him, in full detail how much it is affecting you and the fact that you told your counselor.

They should be quick to deal with the situation.

Do not play this situation down, this is harassment and isn't fair.

Hey Im a your age. Id go straight to the principal. My parents would be furious but I know at my school they take that very seriously don't allow them to touch you. I know fighting is bad but my parents think if someone's bothering me its OK. People don't bother me because they know I don't play That Might work for you too. MAYBE

Report it again, any touching that is not wanted is illegal and has to be against the rules.

Also why don't you MOVE and not sit next to them, make a scene when it is happening,

It's hard to make a scene when you are young and feel you have no support, but it might stop it if your able for it.

But going to the principle might make it worse and I don't have a teacher that I really trust because it is my first year going to this school.

But why do you think going to the principle is worse?

Because when I told the counciler it got worse because at the time that I told the counciler there was only two doing it and only one stopped and the other one got two other people to do. So if I tell the principle then they might get more people to do it.

Huh are you in high school or middle. But why wount your parents do anything about it?

I am in high school. Because they are truck drivers and they are on the road.

o.k is there any body that you can trust.( family, friend... )

I'd make a scene when they start again, Like yell get your hands off my body or I will consult a lawyer or maybe even just yell pervert leave my body alone!

Try breaking one of there noses that should get soething done, and if it doesn't then these guy are desperate.

try breaking one of there noses that should get soething done, and if it doesn't then these guy are desperate.

Unfortunately in the school system nowadays the victim fighting back only gets the victim suspended or both of them suspended. It rarely gets the right result of anything being done to solve the problem. The Politically correct way they do things is both get equal punishment.

So what do you do when they tap you, and push you side to side. Just sit there and take it?

What about yelling 'LEAVE ME ALONE!! " Cause a scene. Report them. Move when you see them coming to a safe place ie near a teacher or an exit, as Chuck said.

The first thing the teacher or Principal is going to ask is, "What did you do to try to stop them", and what are you going to say.

Stick up for yourself, and don't be a victim here.

You have very reasonable solutions to this problem. I hope you choose not to be a victim of this bullying behaviour.

Well my friend brittney.I can't get close enough to break one of there noeses because when they get close they box me in so I can't get a hand free. And I've tried reporting it. And they don't like me like me.

every day in gym class there are these guy's that won't leave me alone. they sit by me and move my friends a way from me. when they are siting by me they were taping me on the back, pushing me side to side, and rubing my back. i want them to stop,but i don't know how to get them to stop. i told the counciler and one guy stoped but that leaves three more guy's still doing it. i've told them to stop, but they arn't listening. i've told my boyfriend all he said was oh ok. so idk wat to do will someone help me figure out wat to do.


In addition to them moving your friends out of the way, tapping you on the back, pushing you from side to side, and rubbing your back, they are now swarming you to the point of being so close you can't get a hand free?

I'm sorry but I just don't buy your story that you cannot do anything to stop this. You find them 'annoying and perverted', but you aren't scared, afraid to go to school, fearful of them stalking you outside of school, or any otherwise 'natural' reactions to being stalked, swarmed, intimidated, and harassed.

When it no longer suits your purpose to be 'annoyed' by them, and something more serious happens, perhaps you'll take some of the advice you've been given and do something about it.

Tell the principal that when they hurt you bad enough to end up in the hospital you will have a big lawsuit because you have repeatedly asked for help

Look giggle it doesn't matter if things get worse. Tell your principle. I've been sexually harassed too. When I was a sophomore a spiteful ex of mine spread a rumor that I masterbated with Jones bottles. His freshmen sent me an email with a picture of a jones can asking me "Have you used this yet?" I went straight to the principle and they had the girl, my ex, and several other people who were giving me crap about it suspended. Sexual harassment is something that should never been taken lightly. As far as you know these guys might gang up on you outside of school. Sounds like I'm blowing it out of porportion but it can happen. Four colleges guys tried to follow me and 3 of my friends to my house once when we were 13. Things like this happen!! If nothing is done call the police, sounds drastic, but the police are there for things big and small. If you call the police it doesn't mean they are going to arrest the boys or anything they just might call the school and get something done. If you don't want to do that then bring your friends who have witnessed the harassment into the principles office with you back up never hurts and it makes you feel more secure.

P.S. if you're boyfriend is brushing it off his shoulders like a piece of lint dump his dumb . He obviously doesn't care about your safety. So what if you won't be able to date again. Having a boyfriend doesn't give you status or anything, it's better to be single then date a guy who doesn't care.

Thanxs for the help BiWiccanANDPROUD. I am going to go to the principle. Thanxs again. Did the guy's leave you alone?

Maybe their taking advantage of you because your new. Going to the principal might make it worse but you never know unless you try. These type of situations sometimes tend to get worse. How about a counselor tell someone please just try it

Your welcome giggle and yes the guys AND girls who were messing with me due to the rumors left me alone after those people were suspended. Rumors stopped and people shut up. There was also a video of me and my friend tracey dancing and at one point flashing a camera on my jump drive once and someone stole it and spread around the vid via our school laptops, when we reported it the video was deleted from all computers and people were punished that was freshmen year. A letter my friend's boyfriend had wrote her dealing with going to the next base was dropped and it was photocopied and spread around the school. The letters were all picked up and shredded and the people were punished, that was Sophomore.

As you can tell a lot of crap happens at my school. Going to the principle always helps. And again if things presist past what they are now (like if nothing is done or the boys start harassing you outside of school) call the police.

Yea thanxs. I will OK.

I told the counselor again but it worked for a little while but now they are asking me out as a joke and I wished they would stop.

Guys used to ask me out as a joke when I was in middle school. I would just ignore them and not say anything and they would laugh and then finally leave me alone after a while. In your case since they are touching you, you should go to the principle even though you think things will be worse because if you don't try to get yourself out of it, they are not going to leave you alone. Just tell the principal and if he doesn't do anything tell someone else. It doesn't hury to just try. You could even get the police involved. To me sexually harassing someone is the same thing as raping them because it hurts just as much. I'm sorry you have been going through this. I hope you figure something out.

Is there an older brother or similar figure that can stand up for you?

If not, then I agree with the others; keep going to higher and higher up authority figures until you get some proper help.

Good luck, and keep us all updated

OK I will

Ok, since I go to school with you, I know exactly what's going on. (And to everyone else, I have told them to stop, multiple times, and I have gone to the counselor, and it did stop for a little while but then it started back up again.)
Anyway, I'd say go to the principal or someone like that. Also, don't giggle when they're talking to you, you do that a lot. They still think you like them, that's the only reason they won't leave you alone. Don't ask to be friends with them anymore, it won't work, they don't want to be your friend they just want to mess around with you. So stand up for yourself and don't take their crap anymore.

Thanxs brittney.

thanxs brittney.

I'm not Brittney.

Srry hope

They are starting it this year to. Except I don't have gym anymore and instead of them doing it in gym there doing it in my third period class. I've told my third period teacher if she can move me so I'm not near them and she said she would do what she can. I don't know if that will work though.