I would like to know what's really in my boyfriend head. W e have been together for almost 3 years. After many struggle in our relationship we grown to be stronger. Just before Christmas his mum died. He hasn't been at his country since so I guess he doesn't want to face it. He works a lot. 6 days per week. I work full time and study part time. We are both absolutely exhausted and don't see each other a lot. He keep saying, that he loves me, he would like to marry me and other things.. but, we don't even live together and now it looks like I have to move out out of my house. When I spoke to him about it, he said he is sorry and will help me to find something else. But never mentioned to move in with him.He's been in long term relationship before and he lived with his girlfriends.I fell like he is saying thing just because he thinks I want to hear them. I think this relationship had too much struggle and I have no energy to fight for it anymore. I don't see his commitment to this relationship. There is always something, His job, mum, family, his head.. I don't know what to do. I could write a story about these past 3 years together. Just very confused about what he's saying but his actions are very different.

Should ask I suppose after 3 years, what's going on exactly.

We can only contemplate scenarios!

Well he cheated on me right in the beginning in the relationship. I found out and he promised he won't ever hurt me again. He's changed, but he is a charmer... I kept analyzing his every step but I have decided to trust him as I could not keep continue being in the relationship in that way. He knows that and he always says he appreciate what everything I have done for him, supported him and believed in him when no one did. But he said till I don't trust him completely we are heading to a time bomb. It was OK till he started to saying things like he wants to marry me and other things like that... that made me think about our relantionship. Am I analyzing too much?

I would give him some time, his mom died at christmas, that has got to be one of the hardest things to handle. I know when my best friend died, I went into a shell and didn't let ANYONE in. It's some peoples defenses, they shell up and proterct themselves