So, here I am not sure what to do and saw this page. This all started about a month ago. My husband starting talking to someone at work outside of work. The first few times when I confronted him about it he said it was a boy. I called the number and it was in fact a woman. He swears on everything that nothing happened and I believe him, he never swears on anything, but he's acting a little different. I have blocked that number and everything and I think there might have been feelings for that girl. Both of them claim they are just friends, yes I have talked to her, but I believe that there might have had something happened if I didn't find out. How do I talk to my husband about it? It drives me crazy. He shows me he loves me and is always with me, but he's kind of distant lately. Is he sorry he got caught? I don't know what to say to him. I feel like he betrayed me. That he's broken my loyalty. I feel that because he lied to me that it was a woman I can't believe him anymore. We were so happy and I'm not sure what happened. I wish I knew. I wish that he's more open about what had happened. How can I make him explain it to me? Do we need marriage counseling? We were so happy. I can't get over how good things were between us and now it's like everything has gone down the drain.

Do you work outside of the home?

Yes we both work outside of home. The 8 to 5 ordeal.