My boyfriend is 32 and we've been together for a year and almost 3 months. In 3 weeks, we will have gone a full year without having sex. He told me he thought he had a problem from the beginning and started seeing a therapist occasionally. But here we are and he's still hardly affectionate to me. I got him to lay half way on top of me and kiss me one month ago for the first time this whole time. He only started french kissing me again about two months ago.

I just need someone that's been through this to help me. I don't want to leave him, I want to stay with him forever. But after this long, I just don't think I can. Anyone know of any support groups? Anything that might help ME?

What is his problem, medical ? Mental ? Does he have a condition that can not be treated.

Has he also seen a medical doctor

There are several medication on the market(lavitra, viagra, etc.) that he might want to try. Have him speak with his doctor to explore the options.

We would need to know if it is a physical issue or what...

She's not looking for something for HIM.

She's looking for a support group for HER to deal with it.

Hon--try asking your family doctor. She/he may have local suggestions for you.

You could start by buying some toys for the bedroom. You need to get off some girl. Maybe if he watches you, that might help him. Killing two birds w/ one nice stone.