View Full Version : Can a man love twowomen at the same time equally
nairuttya
Feb 26, 2009, 12:20 AM
I am a much married man with a lovely wife and a very young son . Circumstantially, I am in love with another woman .is it right ,will it be possible to marry her too ?
neverme
Feb 26, 2009, 04:55 AM
Where are you from?
Maybe it is OK, socially, in your country, but from my perspective, which is westernly biased admittedly, this is a terrible thing to do.
If I was your wife I would show you the door.
If I was you, I'd be ashamed of myself for emotionally cheating on your wife and child, even if you haven't been physical with this woman.
Again, admittedly westernly biased opinion, but this situation goes against what I see as integral morals.
talaniman
Feb 26, 2009, 05:22 AM
I don't know where your from, but the one to ask that question of, and get a good answer, would be your wife. See what she says.
Romefalls19
Feb 26, 2009, 07:07 AM
Ask your wife
zeeniee
Feb 26, 2009, 02:31 PM
You might love two people- but equally?? Hmmm how would you define equally in such a situation?
I so agree with the above - as your wife- hopefully she WILL tell you where to go...
ylaira
Feb 26, 2009, 02:53 PM
If you're a Muslim definitely you won't ask this question.
Anyway, to answer your question, you can't "legally" marry two women at the same time. It's selfish, will ruins reputation and will hurt your pocketbook someday.
Your marriage just needs some life and this woman is not the answer. Trust me
Stratmando
Mar 3, 2009, 07:01 AM
How do the 3 of you feel moving to Utah, actually nice country. Hope it works well, as with 2 women, you will spend twice as fast, and if a Divorce happened, They could empty your bank account twice or twice as fast.
Good Luck
I wish
Mar 3, 2009, 07:15 AM
How about this, do you love your parents equally? Or, if you have 2 or more siblings, do you love them equally? If you think about it that way, I think it might be possible to love two or more people at the same time.
The question is... equally? I think that by human nature, we always have a "favorite," or else why invent that word? At the moment, you probably aren't forced to choose who you love more, so you are probably keeping both of them close, so you feel like you loved them both just as much. I'm sure that if were forced to choose between one of the two one day, you will end up choosing your favorite one and then you will have your answer...