pro36
Feb 25, 2009, 01:59 PM
[F]
It started about 9 months ago. I broke up with my boyfriend and I was really upset. He had been cheating on me. But I had to pretend like it was all okay. Because we had the same friends and he sat beside me in math. So we would talk and I decided to tell him I was talking with this guy that used to go to our high school( he was 3 years older). I told him we were having fun. But then a month later my boyfriend calls me up, middle of the summer, Crying. He said he made a mistake and he wanted to get back together. I gave him one last chance. We broke up again 2 weeks after that because he said it was weird.
So I was very upset. So I started saying I had a boyfriend. This guy that was 3 years older. I thought that if I kept it on the down-low then it wouldn't get out of control. I was wrong. By October everyone knew. I told my ex-boyfriend that I was getting serious and I was having sex with this "boy" and he wanted to get married.
But then I met this guy in my grade and started falling for him. What was I to do. So I "called it off" with this extremely good looking guy, to go out with, lets say nerd.
Yes I have a real boyfriend now. And yes he is a nerd. But I love him. Hes sweet and he makes me feel very special.
But now my ex-boyfriend found the "guy". The guy I had told him I was dating. I don't know what they talked about, but I heard that he told him he has never heard of me in his life.
OHH NO!
Now my boyfriend and my ex-boyfriend and all of our friends are starting to figure stuff out. Its 9 months later and what do I do.
I need to know what the right thing to do is. Do I tell the truth because it's the right thing? Even though once I do I might loose all my friends.
I go home everyday and cry and cry and cry because I screwed up my life so bad. All because I needed a little bit of attention.
Now I have the most amazing boyfriend ever and I might loose him if I tell him the truth. I Plan to tell him on Saturday... tell him everything. Let him know that all I am scared of is losing him over a stupid mistake I made.
Is this the right thing to do? Just looking for a little but of support and advice.
It started about 9 months ago. I broke up with my boyfriend and I was really upset. He had been cheating on me. But I had to pretend like it was all okay. Because we had the same friends and he sat beside me in math. So we would talk and I decided to tell him I was talking with this guy that used to go to our high school( he was 3 years older). I told him we were having fun. But then a month later my boyfriend calls me up, middle of the summer, Crying. He said he made a mistake and he wanted to get back together. I gave him one last chance. We broke up again 2 weeks after that because he said it was weird.
So I was very upset. So I started saying I had a boyfriend. This guy that was 3 years older. I thought that if I kept it on the down-low then it wouldn't get out of control. I was wrong. By October everyone knew. I told my ex-boyfriend that I was getting serious and I was having sex with this "boy" and he wanted to get married.
But then I met this guy in my grade and started falling for him. What was I to do. So I "called it off" with this extremely good looking guy, to go out with, lets say nerd.
Yes I have a real boyfriend now. And yes he is a nerd. But I love him. Hes sweet and he makes me feel very special.
But now my ex-boyfriend found the "guy". The guy I had told him I was dating. I don't know what they talked about, but I heard that he told him he has never heard of me in his life.
OHH NO!
Now my boyfriend and my ex-boyfriend and all of our friends are starting to figure stuff out. Its 9 months later and what do I do.
I need to know what the right thing to do is. Do I tell the truth because it's the right thing? Even though once I do I might loose all my friends.
I go home everyday and cry and cry and cry because I screwed up my life so bad. All because I needed a little bit of attention.
Now I have the most amazing boyfriend ever and I might loose him if I tell him the truth. I Plan to tell him on Saturday... tell him everything. Let him know that all I am scared of is losing him over a stupid mistake I made.
Is this the right thing to do? Just looking for a little but of support and advice.