I have acura 3.2 tl 1998 is any one know where is the location of the this relay on the car
Thanks

Not exactly sure on your Acura, but this link should give you an idea where it may be located:

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/cars-trucks/faq-how-troubleshoot-repair-maintain-hondas-selected-other-vehicles-46563-5.html#post518093

Try turning the ignition key on and off and listen for the location of the click. You should also be able to feel it click, if it works at all.