Soooooooo Guys... tell me what do you hate in your PERFECT Girl?

'n what do you Love as well ?

Here's what I hate
1. Most of all Lying.
2. Complaining. I understand we all complain sometimes but some women just complain for no reason and I think they actually enjoy it but it sure does bring me down.
3. Stupidity. Some girls you talk to and you seriously wonder how they made it past 3rd grade. I was talking a girl once who told me she was from, "the state of Chicago." I repeated that again, back to her to give her the chance to correct herself. She just said, "yep." I just couldn't believe it. It was kind of a turnoff.
4. Games. We are forced to play them I guess, but I hate them.
5. Someone who asks for your advice but then never takes it. If you don't want it don't ask for it.
6. Girls that answer everything with "yeah" or "no." Feel free to follow up with an actual sentence.
7. Girls that smoother you. Give me some space because I don't want you around all the time. It doesn't mean I don't like you, it just means I like to do things for myself.
8. Women that start arguments for no apparent reason.
9. Women that expect gifts from a man.
10. In that very same category, when you get something from a man and show no appreciation for the gift that you got.

Right OK...

My comments re your pointers chuff ;).

1. I don't lie to my hubby, if you LOVE someone you don't lie, it's a simple as that.
2. Most of the times when a women complains, there a reason why we do, besides women are hormonal and men just don't understand that :)
3. stupidity - same goes for men too!
4. Games - Vice Versa ;)
5. Women like to listen... men don't understand that.
6. same as men
7. same as men too
8. there's ALWAYS a reason... but as I said above... men don't always understand us.
9. Men expect gifts too. But the trick is - expect nothing of no one.
10. Well if any women does that then she isn't worthed ;)

Thanks Val, I agree too :)

Read my posts...

Who? Me?

who? me?
Anyone...

Hate in a girl:
- Tattoos and body piercings
- intolerance
- dishonesty

I hate :-
Jack the lads...

anyone...

You have loads of posts with plenty of great answers.

Hate in a girl:
- Tattoos and body piercings
- intolerance
- dishonesty

All tattoos?
How about just 1 small one?

All tattoos?
How about just 1 small one?Good point. It's the large publicly visible ones I don't like: on the arms/legs, especially the tramp stamps on the lower back. A small one placed where only your lover could find it (hehe) is cool since I have exactly that and I don't want to appear the hypocrite.

Krs,

None of that was meant a personal attack... I felt the poster was asking for advice on how to better understand men and I was giving her my honest feedback. Of course it goes both ways it's just that woman are evil.












HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. That was a joke people don't attack me.

Chuff I know that don't worry :)

I just felt the urge to reply!

:p men can be evil too..

Good point. It's the large publicly visible ones I don't like: on the arms/legs, especially the tramp stamps on the lower back. A small one placed where only your lover could find it (hehe) is cool since I have exactly that and I don't want to appear the hypocrite.

Lower back tattoos are great.
I want to get one, and I also would like a very smaller one on my neck!
Hubby disapproves big time.
I also had my belly pierced ( when I was 18 ) now I've long got rid of that ;)

You have loads of posts with plenty of great answers.
Thanks. You got it. My posts are directed to help others who can't imagine what goes on in relationships. Some people here just read them but may not be able to share their experiences. Most of my posts are not my own but some people here asked me to stop talking about other peoples problems and just discuss my own. The last few months have been related to my own experiences. But I'm going back to what if... and what would you do...

Talking and express feelings can be the best therapy ever!

What do u mean going back to what if etc?

Lower back tattoos are great.
I wanna get one That fad has passed. Now everyone is wearing Crocs and that will pass too except you can throw the shoes away but you're stuck with the tat. The 20 year olds with the large bore piercings and the big tats are going to look stupid in a few years when it's time to look for a corporate job. Some of those moms with 2 kids are already looking a little silly with their lower back tat peaking out. That's just my opinion of course but their probably a reason your hubby is against it, we probably have the same views.

Talking and express feelings can be the best therapy ever!

what do u mean going back to what if etc?
I'm going back to what if... I have so many friends that have experienced all kinds of issues and I plan to cont with there stories with their approval of course. My own problems I can deal with but many people here don't think I can. You don't really know me at all.

That fad has passed. Now everyone is wearing Crocs and that will pass too except you can throw the shoes away but you're stuck with the tat. The 20 year olds with the large bore piercings and the big tats are going to look stupid in a few years when it's time to look for a corporate job. Some of those moms with 2 kids are already looking a little silly with their lower back tat peaking out. That's just my opinion of course but their probably a reason your hubby is against it, we probably have the same views.
Yep NK I think you do actually :)

When a girl conntinues to test me over and over...

Oh I forgot to mention the top pet peeve for me: personal hygiene.
Lack of it is a deal breaker for sure.

My personal #1 pet peeve is moodiness.

Right ok...

My comments re your pointers chuff ;).

1. I dont lie to my hubby, if you LOVE someone you dont lie, its a simple as that.
2. Most of the times when a women complains, there a reason why we do, besides women are hormonal and men just dont understand that :)
3. stupidity - same goes for men too!
4. Games - Vice Versa ;)
5. Women like to listen... men dont understand that.
6. same as men
7. same as men too
8. there's ALWAYS a reason.... but as i said above... men dont always understand us.
9. Men expect gifts too. But the trick is - expect nothing of no one.
10. Well if any women does that then she aint worthed ;)

I don't think Chuff was necessarily claiming that all women possess all of these traits. He was simply elaborating on traits that he dislikes, which was the point of the original question. I've known my share of women who possess some or all of these traits and it is quite exasperating to have to deal with. Also, I'm sorry but I don't buy that "hormonal" stuff ; I've heard it enough times before but it just doesn't fly. Remember. Men have hormones too (it's called testosterone) but if a man ever tried that excuse he'd be laughed right out of town. As for men not understanding why women start arguments (in reference to #8), perhaps some communication would go a long way towards fostering understanding. However, the one who opens the can of worms, i.e. starts the argument has to bear the responsibility for initiating the communication. If there's a reason then I have a right to know why ; otherwise, don't waste time starting an argument with me!

I have to agree about the "hormonal stuff!!!!!!"

Women get PMS and men get HE MS. It has been proven that men have "cycles" too. Girls if you know it is coming then just deal with it. I know I do and I know many women who do. It is just a part of life we have to contend with.

I don't think Chuff was necessarily claiming that all women possess all of these traits. He was simply elaborating on traits that he dislikes, which was the point of the original question. I've known my share of women who possess some or all of these traits and it is quite exasperating to have to deal with. Also, I'm sorry but I don't buy that "hormonal" stuff ; I've heard it enough times before but it just doesn't fly. Remember. men have hormones too (it's called testosterone) but if a man ever tried that excuse he'd be laughed right out of town. As for men not understanding why women start arguments (in reference to #8), perhaps some communication would go a long way towards fostering understanding. However, the one who opens the can of worms, i.e. starts the argument has to bear the responsibility for initiating the communication. If there's a reason then I have a right to know why ; otherwise, don't waste time starting an argument with me!

I know that, in fact in page 2 if I'm not mistaken you can see that we joked around about it.

Personally, ( I prob will get attacked now ) but when men say they don't buy it - hormonal stuff.. well that's when I come to the conclusion that some men don't understand women, women are a complicated breed (sometimes). I know men have hormones too, but women suffer more.
Men don't understand when women ovulate, and when we have periods, it's a long cycle, and lots goes on in us ;)
In fact when its my cycle, my husband usually just ignores me... to be honest it's the best therapy for me when I'm like it.

Soooooooo Guys ... tell me what do you hate in your PERFECT Girl ??

'n what do you Love as well ?
Hello wanaknow: From my perspective as a male the small things can be the most anxiety producing and it can take time before the heat of the relationship normalizes and gives one a clear view of the small things. Not long ago I read the results of a survey (extensive) and # 1 on the list of things males disliked in a female was GUM CHEWING. Sorry but that's the truth.