I need help getting back going,I was driving down the interstate when car just died.when I got it home I noticed it was getting no fuel,so I changed the pump... that was a waste of money.. so then I got on this forum and got to reading about jumping the relay,so I did and got fuel to pump.I also read to unplug map sensor(where is it ).is there any way I can test the relay?what about the computer?

Try here:
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/cars-trucks/faq-how-troubleshoot-repair-maintain-hondas-selected-other-vehicles-46563.html