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spoonyluv
Feb 22, 2009, 05:13 PM
Me and my ex broke up about 5 months ago. Bad break up and bad relationship. She would come home late or start a fight and not come home at all. We had it out a month and a half ago and said things to each other that where bad. Horrible even. This girl treated me like crap while we lived together for a year and a half. I did everything for her and she expected it. The reason I an posting this is to let you guys know how ever bad you think it is or how ever bad a girl treats you she will miss you. We haven't talked in a few months.She told me we would never get back together, loose her number, I was a self centered jerk... not true, my holier than though attitude really got on her nerves... all 3 months after our breakup and a month and a half ago we had it out finally. But I went out with another girl a few nights ago and the bouncer at the club we used to go to, which we both know came up to me and said that my ex had been in a couple of times and came up to him and asked about me lately..? WHAT... I thought to myself, why would she care. He said.. I think she misses you. So this chick acted like she could care less if I died or not and a couple of months ago and asked about me every chance she gets recently. If she acted like she did during the relationship and the breakup and wonder what I'm up to a few months later... anyone one can... because she was SOOO cold during the breakup. She did and said horrible things like she could care less if we ever spoke or saw each other again. BUT yet asked about me ? On more than one occasion. Huh..

ordinaryguy
Feb 22, 2009, 05:34 PM
She did and said horrible things like she could care less if we ever spoke or saw each other again. BUT yet asked about me ? on more than one occasion. huh..

She probably feels guilty now. Doesn't necessarily mean she wants to get back together, or that she wouldn't do the same thing again. Leave her alone. Let her wonder.

spoonyluv
Feb 22, 2009, 05:44 PM
I know it doesn't mean she wants to get back together but she feels guilty... this girl... PLEASE.

talaniman
Feb 22, 2009, 10:58 PM
Whatever her motives are she is trolling for info. Let her.

spoonyluv
Feb 23, 2009, 05:24 AM
OH I don't plan to do anything. NC at all, trust me. I still care but I'm standing my ground finally.

Romefalls19
Feb 23, 2009, 06:11 AM
Yea, she just wonders about you, that's normal for anyone. Guilt is probably a reason as well

spoonyluv
Feb 23, 2009, 05:28 PM
I don't understand why you guys are saying guilt. I don't get it. Any girl I broke up with in past years I couldn't care less what they are doing to this day. I never felt guilt to the point where I would go out my way to ask about them. Please explain.