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smurfy
Feb 22, 2009, 03:19 AM
Good evening my name is smurfyy... not my real name but it is for now... ive beeen having a problem when it comes to sexual intercourse. I know I shuld go to a doctor but I'm bit embarressed that's why I've come here with a stupid name ''smurfy'' to remain anonomous.. anyway! I'm not being bias or anything.. but I consider myself to be a rather handsome guy! And so do the girls! And at parties and stuff.. alcohol being consumed.. I do drink but not too much just enough to englighten the atmosphere.. and while this is happening I've been confronted my numerous girls and the intensions of these girls are to have sex with me.. and all is well and true I'm single there single ima male males enjoy sex A lot and yeah when it gets down to it I just can't sustain an errection.. and its been driving me mad! I mean I want to sleep with these girls my mind is set but my body has other ideas? I can get half cocked but its floppy and yeah I've hada few girls makle fun of me ova it and they tease me and say I'm gay and blah blah blah. But I just want to getta opinion as to if it's a medical problem that I'm having or is it just not the right place nor the right time? To be having sex? Any answers?
Eelarch
Feb 22, 2009, 04:51 AM
you should get it checked by your doctor definitely ,hel just take a simple test.
but don't worry about it, there's plenty of things you can take for it =]
Fr_Chuck
Feb 22, 2009, 07:45 AM
Many issues, of course drinking never makes things enlightened, it only makes the drinkers stupid but drinking a couple drinks can cause you not to perform. Also at times if you masterbate too much it can hurt your performance since you are use to a certain feel.
And there are 100's of other health issues that can cause problems.
ScottGem
Feb 22, 2009, 07:56 AM
There are so many problems with your post I hardly know where to begin. Since you posted this in Child and Teen Health, I have to assume you are a teenager probably in your mid teens.
This means its illegal for you to drink or even be in places that serve alcohol.
Second, alcohol is a depressant and it does negatively affect your sex drive. Especially at a younger age, your tolerance is lower. So even if you are not drinking much (you shouldn't be drinking at all) that could be the cause.
Third, NO one should be having sexual intercourse unless they are physically, emotionally and financially ready to have a child. Spontaneous sex, especially when inebriated, can lead to forgetting protection. But beyond that no form of birth control is 100%. So any sexual intercourse could result in a pregnancy.
I think, rather than worry about your ability to hold an erection, you need to worry about yourself destructive life style. At your age, you are heading for big trouble.