Me and my ex have been together over 3yrs he left me for some 1 else about a month ago we have resently been contacting ech other and just the other dasy he said he still had feelings for me and he didn't want to loose me and he does not know what it is he wants if its me or his new girlfriend I have been asking him 2 hurry and choose because its not fair on me I also said to him be single and get your head sorted out but he hasent he is still going to his girlfriends house so it feels like he is stringin me along again till things mess up with his girlfriend he said its not what he is doing so I have gave him a week 2 tell me what it is he wants because I will move on I really want him bk I can't stop thinking about him since we split up and I would do anything 2 get him bk he said he don't wanan loose me but is still wiv his girlfriend so what shoulod I do please help me I'm messed up in the head because of it all thanks

Let me see if I get this straight... your ex left you, FOR SOMEONE else, and you are still sitting there WAITING for him to come back? Does that sound right to you? Are you a dog? Why would you let him treat you like that.

Also, I realize you are hurt, but please install some "." (periods) into your story... either my English is off, or that is the longest run on sentence I have ever seen...

Point: NEVER WAIT ON A MAN. HE LEFT YOU... DO NOT GIVE HIM THE PLEASURE OF BEING HIS BACK UP PLAN NOW.

Basically what he did was, use you, throw you in the garbage, and just never emptied the can. Now, you, since you are still waiting in the can, are open for him. He is coming back around, looking in the can, trying to find what he threw away previously. Get your a$$ out of the trash can, and away from him!