Hi all,

This is about my closest friend for the last five years... she was married and by the time I had met her she was going through this rough time in her relationship.We got close after that and I was helping her get back with her hubby.
In the bargain in fact I was falling in love with her and she reciprocated to me,I used to talk to her daily ,travel with her tro office and back home sms regularly and visit her house when her husband was not around as he had a problem.Her husband saw one of the sms I sent on how much I cared for her and he started suspecting a relationship between us which she denied.
Few months later I was in her place(never had sex with her) and her husband was at the door.She got nervous and asked me to leave ,in the bargain her husband knew I was inside.
Since than my relationship has strained with her , I am desperately in love with her , its been 8 months till now ,we patched up in between few times but broke up again.
Now she wants to be left alone and is rude ,to the point and sometimes bangs the phone on me.
I am feeling terribly depressed , not able to concentrate,want to talk to her daily,sometimes I have a glimpse of her from far when she is near her office.
Do you think there is any chance to get bak and by leaving her alone will she come back

Just leave her alone, she is a married women. Your feelings are not going to help her with her marriage.

If the marriage is over then yes, go ahead. But its not.

Sounds like she wants you to leave her alone. So do just that.

I think she probably doesn't want to be rude and is probably missing you even as a friend but knows the best thing for the time being is to stay away from you as she may a) still love her husband and be trying to patch things up b) feels terrible for hurting her husband or c) doesn't quite know what she wants right now. I think the best thing you could do is tell her you want her to be happy and so your going to leave her alone but your there if she needs u. then do exactly that. If you can't do that without letting your feelings get in the way then I suggest you cut all contact because this is only going to cause more hurt. Xxx