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5066GC
Feb 16, 2009, 11:23 AM
Hey,

I had a girlfriend for 3 & a half years. Then in September 2007 we broke up.

Now, all of a sudden (In February 2009) she has added all my friends on Facebook after deleting them back then.

She never spoke to any of these friends & certainly didn’t have a relationship with them outside me (no one had each others phone numbers etc)

So, is she doing it to make me jealous & upset me?. She knows it is something that would upset me.. (but I haven’t let on)

What's even more weird about the whole thing.. is she is meant to be engaged?. but, she got engaged to this new boyfriend a month after we broke up & was also trying to meet up with me while she was meant to be seeing him etc?

So, just wondered what people thought?

kctiger
Feb 16, 2009, 11:26 AM
I think it is weird that you get mad over what someone does on Facebook...

Reading a bit too much into this??

5066GC
Feb 16, 2009, 11:30 AM
I never said I got mad.

kctiger
Feb 16, 2009, 11:31 AM
Hey,

I had a girlfriend for 3 & a half years. Then in September 2007 we broke up.

Now, all of a sudden (In February 2009) she has added all my friends on Facebook after deleting them back then.

She never spoke to any of these friends & certainly didn’t have a relationship with them outside me (no one had each others phone numbers etc)

So, is she doing it to make me jealous & upset me?.. She knows it is something that would upset me.. (but I haven’t let on)
Whats even more weird about the whole thing.. is she is meant to be engaged?.. but, she got engaged to this new boyfriend a month after we broke up & was also trying to meet up with me while she was meant to be seeing him etc??

So, just wondered what people thought?

Really... guess I read it wrong.

5066GC
Feb 16, 2009, 12:06 PM
There is a difference between upset & mad.. I've not got angry about it.

Upset at the fact she might be trying to interfere in my life after messing it up previously.

kctiger
Feb 16, 2009, 12:08 PM
Well, I wouldn't let it get to you, seriously. If that is her intention, then she wins, right? Brush that stuff off your shoulder man, don't let her get you irritated, she ain't worth it. You KNOW that too!

Justwantfair
Feb 16, 2009, 12:12 PM
I had a girlfriend for 3 & a half years. Then in September 2007 we broke up.

Now, all of a sudden (In February 2009) she has added all my friends on Facebook after deleting them back then.

Why are you checking her Facebook after all of this time? Have you not moved on?