Me and my boyfriend been together for like three years. We are close friends and I'm his first.. . so I gave in and gave it a chance...

The problem... He enjoys looking at other women then me!. I'm attractive women... why!. he tells me I'm hot and I turn him on... then all of a sudden in the middle of having sex his penis just goes woop!. gone no more boner... why?. then some girl calls him and he picks up like its one of his friends while we are having sex and he s me harder. ~... what the! I love him and I don't cry for men... this sucks... I don't know what to do and think~!

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The problem... He enjoys looking at other women then me!. I'm attractive women... why!.

Most healthy guys can't help but look at other females, not something you should take personally.

he tells me I'm hot and I turn him on... then all of a sudden in the middle of having sex his penis just goes woop!. gone no more boner... why?.
Loss of concentration,. poor health... drugs. What does he say?

then some girl calls him and he picks up like its one of his friends while we are having sex and he s me harder. ~... what the!.
You need to stop that!

I love him and I don't cry for men... this sucks... I don't know what to do and think~!
Time for that honest talk with him, and get some facts and feelings. Communicate, talk, and listen