I got argument with my wife from one mount ago and I had hit her but in the same night I apologized her and she was OK but next day she got text from some one she was thinking he still loved her but he got marry and he got kids but he made her to trust him then she runway but she s not with him.. and in the same time she knew his family do not like her and he can't get marry from her just if he want to get divorce from his wife and he is going to do that.. but my wife want to get divorce from me and she still thinking he love and care about her.. so I do not know what can I do to get my wife back to me.. she still young she just 18 and that man over 30

No offense... there is NEVER a reason to hit her. If you hit her, she should NOT come back.

You aren't addressing the correct issue, your wife SHOULD leave you for what you did, this man just gave her the excuse/reason to leave.

Are you attending anger management?

There is not an excuse for EVER hitting another person, especially one that you professed to love, cherish and take care of.

I knew what I did it was big wrong and I knew that man what she s thinking he is love her , he just play with her and he is not going to get marry from her

I had hit her

What kind of man hits a woman? Not only SHOULD she leave you, but you should be in jail. Abuse is abuse, no matter who hits who.

Time to get into some anger management dude.

he just play with her and he is not going to get marry from her
Who cares. As long as he doesn't hit her.

Well if you understand what you did was wrong, seek anger management, accept the consequences of your actions and learn from your horrible action.